nirmal trivedi - dungarpur,rajasthan

Name: nirmal trivedi
Comments: mera naam nirmal trivedi hai.date05/may/2009 ko mere sasural walo ne muj par 498a ka case kar diya lag-hag 3 sal se unhone meri biwi ko unke gar par hi rakha he.me mumbai me hu yaha computer marketing ka kam karta hu.meri biwi hai 25 year lekin dimag 12 ki ladaki jitana hai.mere sasur use mere sath is liye nahi rakha ta hai ki me kahi uska medical karwa ke pagal goshit karke talak le lunga.mene kaha ki esa kuchh nahi karunga meri kismat me jo tha wo hua aap bhejo. lekin usne kaha ki tum bombay chhod do or goan me GAR JAMAI bankar raho me yaha kam dilaunga.mene mana kiya to case kiya our police ko paise dekar mere sabhi garwalo ipc307dhara lagwai ki hamne jalake marne ki koshish jab ki F.I.R me likhwaya he ki 5year se meri beti ko leke nahi jata he.police ne 1.5lakh ruye liye our 307 dhara lagai jiski wajah se mere mammi-papa 10 deen our me 45 deen jail me raha.hame police walo ne hi bola ki usne jamanat nahi hone dene ke liye jila court tak judge ko paise diye.police to uske hath ki kathhputali he. wo L.I.C.me d.o he paisa bahut kamata he.uska chacha tahsil me munschi tha to pehchan bhi batut he S.D.M,CITY MAJISTRED sab se uski pechan bhi he local M.L.A ka bhi dar dikha raha he mere perents 80/85years he meri sisters ki sha di hue 20/25 hogaye he feer bhi sab ko fasaya he.hamara jeena haram kar diya he ab bolta he ki tum log chhut gaye ho to tumhare gar me aag laga dunga .or case me jail bhijwaunga police itna paisa kha chuki he ki kuchh bhi kar saki he ham kya kare.wo kehta he ki me tumko saja karwa ke hi rahunga chahe high-court ke judge ko kharidana pade.chahe 25lakh bhi dene pade me tumko chodunga nahi.aap soch sakte hai ki bager kuchha kiye 307 lagwakar 45 days jamanat nahi hone di to wo kitna takatwar he our gawo me police/adalato ki halat aap bhi jante hi honge.ab muje kya karna meri halat bahut buri hai aatm-hatya karne ko ji chahta hai magar mere ma-bap budhe he me kya karu,please meri madad kijiye warna waha ki adalate sabut bhi nahi dekhati.me jail me tha tab maine dekha waha 20se25 bekasur ladke 498a me band hai.akhir kab tak.KYA MUJE INSAF MILEGA

Devendra Singh - Lucknow

Name: Devendra Singh
Comments: My wife is not became a mother because she have no Ovaries of both side, She have listining problem also and Small sie Uterus, UTERUS is measuring approx.4.3x1.7x2.3cm in size. So i want to take Divorse. From my sing one case runing in Family court aginst my Wife and the first Date in 22/08/2009. Against me, my wife's family Rajistred the FIR in of 498a, 323,509 IPC and Section 3/4 Dowry Pribhistion. So we are very afried for this case.

Then plz. Give me Advise What can i do in against case.

Gautam Kumar - uttar pradesh

Name: Gautam Kumar
Comments: She have filed an application through C.J.M. court for lodge F.I.R. and investigate. C.J.M. have ordered for same.

NARESH TYAGI - HAPUR(GHAZIABAD)(U.P.)

Name: NARESH TYAGI
Comments: MY WIFE FILLED THE FRAUD CASE WITH ME AND MY FAMILY. SHE BEHAVE ME VERY RUDELY.

ashok - mumbai

Name: ashok
Comments: We were staying in joint family after marraige on 17-11-2002 my wife left home twice (In one year) and came back and when she went to her parent's house for delivery of baby on 21-02-2004 she did'nt returned back pressuring me to stay seperate with here, finally b'coz of child i accepted to stay seperate and she came on 14-08-2007 and always use to quarrel with me unneccesary and broke my brothers engagement by telling negative things to my brothers inlaws about my family and had quarrel with me again left house on 15-11-2008 with her mother & Till date she is over there. I tried evrything from my side even staying seperate from my family but still she always follow her mother,brother & sister and harrass me and my family.
I'm feedup with this and does'nt want to continue relation with her nor want to give her any maintanance as I tried my best to keep relation good.
Can I marry without divorcing her, has already earlier also she was with her family for more then 3-1/2 years and again now almost a year.
Please let me know the best way to get out of this with giving any maintanace to her and re-settle my life with new partner

sanjiv sohal - amritsar

Name: sanjiv sohal
Comments: WE GOT MARRIED ON 18/04/08. WE HAVE NOT TAKEN A SINGLE ITEM IN DOWRY(NO SHAGUN/ NOCASH/NOGIFTS)WHICH CAN BE DOCUMENTED IN THE VIDEO. IN HONNYMOON TRIP SHE STARTED MAKING DEMANDS AND ENQUIRING ABOUT MY FAMILYS WEALTH , WHICH I REFUSED TO DIVULDE.MY WIFE FROM THE DAY ONE DID NOT WANT TO HAVE PHYSICAL RELATION WITH ME. I THOUGHT MAY BE THERE IS SOME ADJUSTMENT PROBLEM BECAUSE WE HAD SHORT TIME OF ENGAGEMENT TIME BEFORE MARRIGE.SHE STAYED 18/04/2008 TO08/10/2008. AS MEMBERS OF FAMILY KNEW THAT THERE WAS NO SEXUALCONTACT WITH ME,UNDER THE PRESURE SHE MADE.IN THE MEANTINE SHE HAD DIVULGED TO ME THAT SHE HAVE HAD PHYSICAL RELATION WITH ONE OF HER RELATIVE IN THE PASTS AND STILL WANTS TO CONTINUE WITH IT. I TOLD HER TO FORGET ABOUT HER PAST AND LIVE A NEW LIFE BUT IT FELL TO HER DEAF EAR.SHE TOLD ME THAT I HAD ONLY MARRIED TO U UNDER PRESSURE AND MONEY .AS U KNOW THAT I HAVE A RELATION I DONT WANT TO HAVE FAST (KARVACHAUTH WARTH) IN YOUR NAME AS I HAD BEEN 4 THE LAST3-4 YEARS KEEPING THE FAST IN HIS NAME.AS WE GOT THE CONFORMATION OF HER PREGNANCY SHE STARTED CREATING MORE TROUBLE.THE SAME DAY SHE TOLD ME THAT I DONT WANT TO CONTINUE WITH THIS PREGNANCY.SHE ALSO TOLD MY ELDER BROTHERS WIFE THAT I HAVE TOLD MY RELATIVES THAT MY IN LAWS ARE MISBEHAVING WITH ME AND THEY WILL COME AND THRASH THEM ALL.AND ON 8/10/08 THIS HAPPENED ,ALL OF A SUDDEN IN THE MORNING AFTER HAVING BATH WIHOUT TELLING ELDERS AND ME SHE WENT AWAY TO HER PARENTS HOUSE TAKING WITH HER ALL THE STRIDHAN(CASH(SHAGUN)GOLD THAT WE HAD GIVEN/GOLD THAT SHE HAD BROUGHT AND HER CLOTHS). IN THE EVENING HER RELATIVES HAD COME TO OUR SHOP TO THRASH US.BUT AFTER HEARING THE TRUTH THEY REALISED THAT THEIR KIN IS ON THE WRONG SIDE.THEY SCOLDED HER AND TOLD NOT TO MISGUIDE IN THE FUTURE.WE HAD INFORMED THAY SHE HAD TAKEN ALL THE VALUEABLE WITH HER.HER RELATIVES ASSURED US THAT THE WILL RETURN THAT IN THE MORNING WHICH NEVER HAPPENED .A DAY AFTER THAT HER MOTHER CAME AND TOOK MY WIFE SAYING THAT AS SHE IS PREGNANT & AND BEEN SCOLDED 4 THE MISTAKE SHE HAD MADE, I WILL TAKE CARE FOR 2-3 DAYS AND SEND BACK TO U.4M 8/10/08 TILL 16/12/08 MY FATHER HIMSELF AND THROUGH RELATIVES HAD GONE 5 TIMES TO BRING MY WIFE BACK BUT SHE HAD NOT COME.ON 16/12/08 WE CAME TO KNOW THAT SHE HAD ABORTED THE CHILD. ON 23/12/08 SHE HAD FILLED A POLICE COMPLAINT ON DOWRY AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ACT. THE INQUIRY COULD NOT BE COMPLETED AS THERE WERE ELECTION IN THE STATE , THE SEAT OF INQUIRY OFFICER FELT VACANT. IN THE END WE ARE NO WHERE TILL DATE. PLEASE GIVE US PROPER ADVICE WHAT ACTION TO TAKE FURTHER.

ram kumar - Sultanpur

Name: ram kumar
Comments: She have filed D.V. Act and there is order for lodge an F.I.R. against dowerry act.

om prakash - alwar rajasthan

Name: om prakash
Comments: in future i will be victim of this case, because my wife and her family trying to ruined me and my family. they are planning to get job in talaksuda quota or widow quota, because she has tryied three times to get job through rpsc ajmer in third grade teacher recruitment. she is not want live with me more than one year as she challenged me last night. but want to live with her because of my two childred one is 7 yr and one is nine months. please help me to stop her to such plan.
she has three brothers of my age one of them criminal background and one is historyseeter, so that i am also worried about my life. please save me.

SANDEEP SRIVASTAVA - ALLAHABAD / UTTAR PRADESH

Name: SANDEEP SRIVASTAVA
Comments: I am also a victim of false cases in Allahabad and complaint put up to Police. But till date police did not do any action as they could not find any guilt at first instance. We all presented ourselves to police for arrest as they called up. It is a misuse of lawa against us and trying to blackmail me n my family as my parents are alone in town and I am working in Delhi. Lady has an affair n did marriage in pressure with false records.
What can be my precautionary steps to save my family first and later myself. I have a three months old sweet daughter too but not have access to her due to this law.
Will the lady like this will be a good mother n let her learn good manners.

Narmada - Hyderabad

Name: Narmada
Comments: Harrassed over dowry, my sister (Narmada) stayed home. Sometime later they grabbed her elder son (7) and took away forcefully. We registered a case under 498A but they got bail from High court of Andhra Pradesh alleging that she had extra marital affairs and some more. The case is running but we can't afford to pay Lawyer's ransom. All that we want is my sister's son back. Please please suggest whether she can get him back.

We are also about file a case with the National Human rights commission, Andra pradesh. Please help me.

shome parthasarathy - new delhi

Name: shome parthasarathy
Comments: My case is very peculiar in nature. my wife is very vindictive in nature and tends to take revenge on any body who does not go with her wishes, even her parents.She wants me to be her slave and blackmailing me and my parents for four years against 498a if i do not do whatever she likes.some times she behaves like a insane person.She abuses me physically very badly.i have marks every were in my body.i recieve all this to save my parents from 498a as she creats nuisence in my home.she trid to kill me also.In front of the cops she tells them that iam not earning and do not give him food and shelter but in fact every time i get a employment or business she completey destroyed them.she believes that if i get money then i may take action against her.My position is pathetic.Police advises me to run away.she is barbaroues and ruthless maniac.please save me , before i die.

bhimsain - patiala pb

Name: bhimsain
Comments: She lives at parent house 5 days in aweek. Never lived at martial house continously for more than 7 days. whenever she likes, she goes and whenever she likes she come. if stopped she starts quarrel and definitely go with threats for filing a false 498a case.

NAVIN LATH - Kolkata/WB

Name: NAVIN LATH
Comments: Hi,

I desperately need help for my sister’s case, please help me. Let me know if anybody can help us in Kolkata. I need this help desperately, please help my sister.

We are not finacially sound to fight agaisnt the cruelty done by her inlaws. And the advantage of which is being taken by her inlaws who are now framing different opinions about her and are now trying to ruin her life in all possible manners they can.

They have severely tortured my sister and brutely damaged her mental peace immediately after her marriage for dowry. Now she is living with her widow mother. We have even lodged an F.I.R. against her inlaws, but all was in vain as they are quite resourseful to take advange of their money power to weaken the case by adopting various means of bribing the police. Even after lodging an F.I.R. agaisnt the cruelty of her inlaws police didn't took any action for 3 months of which her inlaws took advange and was granted a bail by the court.

Can explain in details to the person if you have any organization to help her out in Kolkata. Please help her, I beg, as we have lost all hopes. Pls call me immediately on my mob# 9831536037 for help, as she is in a very bad mental shape now. I am scared that she might commit something worst if no relief is sorted out for her.

Thanks & Regards
Navin Lath
Mob# 9831536037

Vishal - Hyderabad

Name: Vishal
Comments: over interference of my wife's family and misguidance from them, resulted in frequent quarrels.
My wife gets short tempered under these situation and threatens to leave home. Initially i tried to stop her but later i let her follow her own wits.

Once while living away from me with her friend ( girl) she consumed some pills. Fortunately i suspected something wrong when my calls were unanswered..I called 108 and had her hospitalized. She was relieved in 2 hours after a stomach wash.

She is now living away from me for 4 months and working in Delhi.

Her step brother has send my father and me vulger sms's.
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Her step father has filed a dowry ( 30 lakhs) and DV case against me and my whole family but the case got transferred to women cell. we have to go there and give our statements...

We are preparing all the possible documents, like our last one year bank statements, 108 report etc etc.. to show that their complaint is all fabricated...

I am so disappointed that even police is not investigating the genuineness of their case and asking us to ignore the vulgar sms's...did i marry to get insulted. dont i deserve to live respectfully and save the honour of my family..i cant do it..just because..i got married.. ??

All i seek is a fair investigation on this case and let the financial condition of my in-laws be checked...if they can spend this kind of money..if found 100 % guilty..i let the law of land..decide.what do they want to do..to the people who are disgracing the law .

If such people are left to their devices the real victims will also be looked down upon with suspicion.

please advice us how can we make sure that we are not framed even after all our efforts...

I am under constant mental trauma over the bad health of my mom due to all this problems...

kindly help..

sovinder - chandigarh

Name: sovinder
Comments: my in laws interfering in my life. my wife usually go to her home and remain there for two two months. she want to overpower me. she had tried twice for suicide. now she is preganant, and went to her house, and now she is threatening of section 498 and domestic violence. she is having ex marital affair.

S. Chatterjee - Dhanbad, Jharkhand

Name: S. Chatterjee
Comments: My wife has filed a case under sec.498A & 3/4 IPC against me, my mother, my brother in law and my elder sister(Married) since last 16 years ago. Prior to her filing of the above case I had filed a Matrimonial suit against her, for her return back to home as because she is staying at her father house since last more than one year. In my filed case hearing have also started but she didnot attended in any date. Anticipatory Bail for my brother in law and sister has been filed but District Judge will grant after seeing the chargesheet ot the case report from the police station. In this case what are the scope and ways for geeting relief and anticipatory bail etc. Please advise.

Atamjeet Singh Bhatia - Noida (UP)

Name: Atamjeet Singh Bhatia
Comments: We are 4 in family. I got married by www.Sikhmilan.com matrimony site. Todays situation is that my wife is not willing to live with my family. She can take any action against me. She is with her parents (my in-laws). how can i and my family get protected from any mis-happening?
please help me and my family.

Ashok Kumar - New Delhi

Name: Ashok Kumar
Comments: Sir,
please Sir help me

Deepak Arya - Ambala City

Name: Deepak Arya
Comments: My wife does not listen to me & tortures my old parents & use abusive language. she also gets physically violant with my mother who is 60 yrs ols. i belong to well off family & has two kids. My wife is not ready to come to any compromising terms thogh n no of times we had sitting with her relatives also. She threaten my parents that she will get them behind bars in dowry case.

Kindly suggest what to do?

sukhbir anand - delhi

Name: sukhbir anand
Comments: Interreligious marriage after long distance internet chatting followed by love affair.Girl was used to spasmoproxyvon addiction before marriage, a fact not revealed.Also she had number of other boy friends.Marriage was a hell from almost first day.Husband's parents stopped talking to them once the addiction etc came to light.She also has family history of MDP (mother's side).Being a paranoid, and of heavy build(over 100kg),she would often beat the husband.But no MLC filed. Her mother also degenerated the relationship.Mother flew in from Delhi and,same day, she complained to Women's cell on 30th March 2009.Then decided to move out so started looking for a house thereafter, without any of these facts made known to husband.On 4-4-2009, she packed up all her belongings and left the house, with her mother in tow.

Rahul Kulkarni - Pune, Maharashtra

Name: Rahul Kulkarni
Comments: I am from Pune and wife is from Vadodara. Got married in Feb 2006. No dowry demands. Infact I gave a lot to my wife. Had marital problems - wife was always quarelling and father-in-law was always interfering in our married life. I tried everthing to keep wife happy. Wife was working as a permanant lecturer. Wife is well qualified (M.Tech). In March 2007, at the behest of father-in-law, wife left the house. We underwnt professional counselling but didn't help. Wife and Father-in-law continued to harras us by sending false documents, e-mails to relatives, friends, neighbors and office. Finally after unable to suffer further harrasment, I filed for divorce in July 2007 in Pune. Wife continued to stay and work in Pune. Wife got this case transferred to Vadodara in April 2008. Wife gaveup her job and went to Vadodara. She filed for maintenance of fifty thousand per month and one lakh legal fees. In April 2009, wife filed a false 498a case. Police came to arrest us from Vadodara on 4 July 2009. We took transit bail. We went to Vadodara a took regular bail on 8 July 2009.

himanshu - lucknow

Name: himanshu
Comments: my wife has no interest in my faimly she has a lot of desires incrl hadluding sex also i have a past before iwasinvolved in love with a girl this love was only onesided girl did not any thing about it this event had passed 3 year before my marriage but any body who was related to my faimly has told it to my wife and she became to use it like a wepon on 31 aug 2008 her father came and he abused me and my moyher and threat me that he could killed me or they will arresred me in dowery act there was no case charged by them till now but some reliable sources they cando after some times

siva - andhrapradesh

Name: siva
Comments: sir please help me mail me or call me , or give your contact numbers i will explain all the matter , her father is a police officer , DSP .

praveena - visakhapatnam / andhra pradesh

Name: praveena
Comments: marriage performed in visakhapatnam ., husband works and lives in hyderabad., due to tremendous ill treament physically and mentally i have filed a 498a case in visakhapatnam ... after registering the case here the local police say that the case needed to be filed in hyderabad --place of harrasment .. and have not yet arrested the accused . is that proper.and are delying the issue. On the day of lodging the complaint they (police ) were all so eager to go to hyd and arrest the accused but i do not know how the minds changed after about 2days and they say all cock and bull stories and are keeping the case pending . pl suggest the needful thank you sir

ashokhm - Karnataka

Name: ashokhm
Comments: I have applied for divorce and a PCR is filed against her and her mother for cheating. She came to know about this and started threatning about commiting suicide, killing my entire family.
later she forcibly entered the house in my absence and later threatened again to kill my family.
She tried to commit suicide and later she was admitted to hospital. afer discharge she was in her mother's home and we left the town for somedays. In the meanwhile she filed dowry case against our entire family and as of now we are waiting for Anticipatory bail.
Pls let me know can i apply for quashing the 498a case in High court

SOUMEN - Agartala

Name: SOUMEN
Comments: Hi
My elder brother's wife filed a dowry case against him and my parents but later she have withdrawn the case and the court have given a clean chit to all. My brother though was in jail for 1 month. Now my brother's wife doesnt want to stay with him. In papers my brother have shown a monthly income of 2000 rupees for which the family court have asked him to pay 1200 rupees per month. They have a 2 year old kid for which the lady have the custody. But the same court after 6 months have asked him to pay 2000 rupees per month on 09 july 2009. Whats the justification when his salary has not increased at all.

My questions are
1. Can we challenge the courts decision and appeal in session court?
2. How much exactly my brother need to pay monthly to his wife considering his salary?
3. They are staying seperately for more than 1 year. Can my brother ask for a divorce?

Waitng for your advice.

Arun Dash - Mumbai

Name: Arun Dash
Comments: wife with the help of her parents threatning us to file a 498A case within few days after the marriage. Finally filed a false and fabricated complaint.

madhup bhutani - new delhi

Name: madhup bhutani
Comments: Hi, I got married on october 2004 and have one son born in dec 2005 who is dearly loved by both me and my estranged wife.Our problems have been based solely on the fact that i havent done well in life and havent been able to provide my wife with the luxuries she has always craved.She is M.A. in english but refuses to do a job and with all qualifications jsut does a freelance job from which sghe earns about 6000 a mth,recently she has left that also saying that she will file case and extort more money from me as she is not working.She ahs ruined my life and is hell bent on ruining my sons life....please could someone on this forum help me out from my predicament.

raman dandona - delhi

Name: raman dandona
Comments: since marriage having problems. wife was living alone on the first floor since last 6 years in my parents house and I was living on the ground floor with my parents and widowed sister. due to circumstances ( loss in business ) has to sold the house and shift in another house where have to live together with parents. But only in one week of shifting wife has started creating problems. parents are sick and old. I am unable to understand what to do. I am jobless for last 3 months, but will do some business with the help of my father.

shravan kumar - bangalore

Name: shravan kumar
Comments: My wife wanted me to stay separetly as my in- laws wanted when i did not agree to this she filed a 498a case on us. she has taken all her stuff including jewellery and now she is telling that we have taken it and not given them back. She has also stated that me and my parents have demanded a flat and costy jewels and sarrees for marriage and after marriage me and my parents used to harrass her to get the flat. and i used to harrass for her salary and used to mentally and physically harrass her she is told in her complaint, which is full of lies. please help

sanjay mishra - navi mumbai

Name: sanjay mishra
Comments: My name is sanjay Mishra.AGE 30 .Sole bread earner for a family of 6 people.My wife comes from a rich and influential family.
After the marriage there haS been lot of intervention form my wifes relatives who stay in Mumbai.they use to regularly call me and check why i have not taken outher for dinner/movie or any other thing.In a year of recession and job loss it was strict no no for me as i had to cut my expenses and balance my earnings.My brother and sister lost there jobs last yr during recession.hence the whole onus of family was on me.During the month of Aug 2008 i fell severly ill due toJaundice and was adviced 3 months of rest.I was on leave for 3 months till October 008. In a period where i needed the most my wife left me and went to her native place in UP.She returned back only in month of March.She said she wanted to stay in seperate house which i refused .There has been lot of mudslinging by there family in the meanwhile.She and her relatives abused regularly my family and me .Again in the month of March she went to her native place in the pretext of somebodys marraige.I said since there is no communication and no love lets take divorce .The extent here is that we never had any physical relationship in the last 1 yr from the date of marraige.
In the month of April his uncle threateed me with dire consequences for which i filed a NC ON 27TH aPRIL 09.she has been at her native place in the month of April,May and came back in JUne with 2 Poice officers aCCOMPANYING HER.When i asked th police officer why they have come ,they said it was routine.without any complant they use to regularly visit my house and call evrybody.There was lt of police harassment.On 8th June i filed for divorce in Thane sessions court.After telling her that i had taken this step she just started to threaten us with dire consequences and finally on 1st july 2009 she did an FIR.I am out on AB and my next hearing is on 16th July 09.They have complained against evry member of my family.wht to do???The police is totally on there side as they are rich and powerfull.

M.Krishna - Armoor

Name: M.Krishna
Comments: Sir
we are very innocent .After marriage she stayed in our home for only 4 days and she stayed with me only 1 day at Hyderabad where i am working .And she left to her home and she forcing me to come to her home by taking the dowry which they had given at the time of marriage.I told I won't come and she put 498(a) on us.Sir please help us .

aniz patel - jamshedpur

Name: aniz patel
Comments: she has filed a 498a just for making me in trouble, she has been guided by her parents. chargesheet has not yet come to the court, she is asking for maintaince, she has occupied my house, she is staying in my house & enjoying all the benifits, i am staying with my parents after coming from Jail. my house & my parents house is in a 5 mins walking distance.her parents are residing just in front of my house.
i want to get the case in fast track, can i? how will i get a Divorce? kindly let me know.

sahil - mumbai

Name: sahil
Comments: I m from maharashtra and she from MP Itarasi, our marriage date 19Dec2008, She and her parents want to alone stay with her and they wanted to service her. on 24 may 09 she was gone with her parents itarsi and lodged false case 3/4 section 498 on me and my family member. my family is very poor condition, we are not able to fight coury cases, and they logded 3/4 case on my family member and me. the case will transferring 0 number to my town early in this next week. what can i do for bell? please and they blackmail me and my family for money? can i get bell from High Court? Please advice me early before me and my family will arrest. please HELP Me what can I Do GOD.

INDERJEET KAUR - chandigarh

Name: INDERJEET KAUR
Comments: all the query for my husband, i live in india and my husband live in canada, before marriage we live together morethan 3 year after that he goes to canada, he came back india dated 15/10/2007 and got registered marriage 19/10/2007 few day spent together and go back canada dated 31/10/2007, now he dont want to countinue our relationship and he told me i am not coming india in future if you
want i'll send you divorce paper, i m house lady,i have no any income of source, during these day i am facing money problem , i need monthly expenditure from my husband, what could i do, please guide me

SUMEET KUMAR - koderma /jharkhand

Name: SUMEET KUMAR
Comments: maine chekup k lia uske father ko bola to wo aaker mere ghar se le apne ghar le ker chale gaye .. ki wo chekup karaenge... mere father ki tabiyat kharab thi islia mai uska checkup nahe karwa saka.. maine jab pucha ki kis doctor ko dekhaya to usne kaha ki meri beti tik hai aap le jaaye jab maine mana kia to usne mujhe warrning dia ki main dowry k case ker k sabhi ko jail bhijwa dunga..fir maine 12-02-2008 ko S.D.O k yaha sanaha dakhil kia.. 18-03-2008 ko maine divorce suit file ker dia... unko notice milne k baad mujhe dhamki dia ki case uta lo nahe to dowry main sab ko ander kara denge ... dated 12-05-2008 wo mere ghar aaye jiski information maine likh ker s.p aur thana ko dia ... 13-05-2008 ko mere papa ki tabiyat kharab hone se hum log hydrabad chale gay.. dateted 1-8-2008 ko papa ki death ho gai... dateted : 16-5-2008 ko meri wifi ne mere aur family pe dowry case ker dia

fir maine d.i.g hazaribagh ko 1 application dia
unho ne re - supervision karaya
abhi mere fili D.I.G. sahab k yaha pending hai 4 month se main kya karu samajh nahe aa raha .. police ki aur se dhamki di jaa rahe hai surrender karne ki nahe to korki ker denge .
mujhe jhoota case mai fasaya jaa raha hai
plszzz advice me
main bahut pareshsn hu

KANDARP T VAISHNAV - AHMEDABAD

Name: KANDARP T VAISHNAV
Comments: DEAR SIR/MADAM,

MY WIFE AND HIS PARENTS WHERE GIVING ME THREATS OF DOING 498A MANY TIMES AND ALSO ASKING FOR ELE MONEY TO BE PAID BY ME IF I DONT OBEY THEM 100%, WHEN I WAS NOT OBEYING THEM 100% THEN THEY STARTED TO APPART FROM OUR FAMILY OF THEIR OWN AND WENT AWAY TO HER FATHERS HOUSE AND THEN REFUSE TO COME BACK INSPITE OF I TOOK MANY MEASURES TO LET HER COME BACK TO MY HOUSE WITH MY CHILD A DAUGHTER. BUT SHE REFUSED TO COME ON THE GROUNDS OF CURETLY BUT IN REALTY SHE HAS DONE CURETLY ON ME, DONT TO HOME WORK ATALL NOR READY TO SHOW OFF HER WILLINGNESS TO WORK FOR FOOD BUYING OR PREPARING IT PROPERLY OR FEEDING THE MEMEBERS OF THE FAMILY WITH MAKING FOOD IN GOOD MODE OR NOT READY TO GO FOR SEX AS AND WHEN HER HUSBAND NEEDS IT WITHOUT ANY REASON, ONLY ONE REASON SHE WANTS TO SHOW THAT IF U WILL OBEY ME AND MY FAMILY AND DONT TELL ME TO OBEY ANYTHING OF YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS AND YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY CUSTOMS THEN ONLY I WILL STAY WITH YOU OR ELSE I WILL APART FROM YOU AND U WILL FACE 498A OR ELLE MONEY TO PAY OR MAINTANENCE TO PAY HOWEVER AS MY FATHER IS LAYWER AND HE CAN FRAME A CASE IN WHICH U WILL COME UNDER CLUTCH TO PAY ALL THIS AND THEN U WILL UNDERSTAND THE SENARIO VERY WELL. THEN THEY DID CASE AFTER 1 YEAR AND THEY HAVE BLAMED IN CASE FOR DOWERY I HAVE ASKED FOR TO GET T.V FOR RS 12000 BUT I HAVE PROOF THAT THEY HAVE GIVEN SIGNATURE ON RETURNING 12000 RUPESS BY ME AS I HAVE PAID BACK TO THEM AND I HAVE NEVER ASKED FOR MONEY BUT MY FATHER IN LAW FORCE FULLY PAID ME IN MY BANK ACCOUNT THE MONEY WHILE SAYING THAT THAT MY DAUGTHER WILL NOT STAY AT YOUR HOME WITHOUT T.V AS SHE HAS A PRACTICE TO WATCH T.V DAILY AND SO I WILL PAY U MONEY AS U DONT HAVE NOW AND WHENEVER U GET MONEY U PAY ME BACK, FIRST I REFUSE BUT HE COMPLES ME TO RECEVE THE MONEY AND AS HE WAS LAWYER SO HE TRANSFERED MONEY IN TO MY BANK ACCOUNT WHERE I WAS INNOCENT AND WAS NOT KNOWING THAT HE IS CLUTCHING ME UP IN DOWERY CASE WHICH HE WANTS TO DO AFTERWARDS AND SO HE IS MAKING A PROOF OF THAT. BUT YET HE HAS NOT DID 498 A BUT HE PUT A CLAUSE IN A CASE OF DIVORCE THAT I HAVE ASKED FOR DOWERY WHICH I CAN PROVE IT WRONG WITH HIS SIGNATURE AND MY WIFE SIGNATUERE THAT I HAVE PAID BACK THAT T.V MONEY TO THEM IN INSTALLMENTS. OTHER THEY HAVE CLAIMED OF I WAS CURELY BEATING HER AND HARRESHING HER BUT I HAVE THE PROOF OF NEAR BY WHO STAYS NEAR BY MY HOUSE THE NEIBOURS THEY ARE SAYING THAT I AM INNOCENT AND I WAS LOVING HER AND KEEPING HER WITH ATMOST CARE AND GOODLY. THAT I HAVE PROOF WITH MY NEIBOURS ARE SAYING OF THEIR OWN. SO NOW WHAT TO DO ABOUT THIS CAN U TELL ME

Amitabh Srivastava - Delhi

Name: Amitabh Srivastava
Comments: Dear Sir,

Our's was a love marriage my parents were not agreed to this marriage and never participated. From the day one we lived seperately in a rented house. My inlaws kept on insisting me to persuade my parents and to live with them. My wife had a habbit of going to her parental house regularly for 5-6 days leaving me alone. I was working as a Sr. Executive in a private company and had a limited income although my parents have a 3 storied house and my father is a retd. section officer from delhi university.

My case is in CAW Cell my wife and inlaws framed the charges of 498A upon my Father, Mother and Unmarried younger sister which are all base less as they have never given any dowry as it was a love marriage and me and my wife never lived in my parental house.

My wife's brother beaten me with his friends, when I reached AIIMS to get the MLC done along with my wife, she falsely had her MLC done along with me to save her brother and reported the local police station next day that I have beaten her. When I reached to the local police station next morning they refused to take my application agaist her brother and they have also not taken any action on my MLC or my wife's MLC as both came normal but her lawyer father is making it a tool and producing it as a proof of cruelity.

Since then her father is bothering me and my parents and forcing them to take me and my wife to their home or otherwise he will file a FIR against the under 498 A. But my parents are not getting agree to it as all their charges are false and concocted. They are not feeling safe to bring her to their home and thinking that this could be a trap.

My wife filed a case under Domestic violence in march 2008 since then she is getting a maintenance of Rs. 4000 per month from me. but I have lost my job 3 months back as I was not able to concentrate on it properly due to the case hearings in court and hearings in CAW Cell and not able to pay the maintenance from past three months. Now my wife has already given a application to lodge an FIR under 498A in CAW cell. Her father is black - mailing me to pay 5 lacs or else they will send my parents behind the bars.

They are not producing any photographs or marriage CD which they have because any of my parents or relatives not participated in the marriage.

After marriage I came to know that my wife's elder sister also had a divorce and now recently married again. From her first marriage her father got a huge money in settlement.

Kindly advice me on above as I am very frustrated and tensed, don't know what to do next.

Ramakoteswara Rao - Andhra Pradesh

Name: Ramakoteswara Rao
Comments: I am Ram. I came to know about your website. I live in London. Recently I married to a girl from Andhra Pradesh. I have sponsored dependent visa to her. After getting married, she informed me that she was forced by her parents to marry me. After that I returned to UK and leading my life. But I would like to lead my life with her. But she is not coming to live with me and she would like to support their parents as they are very greedy about money. So, she would like to do the job and stay with them and whenever she would like to come to UK she would like to come here which is not feasible for me. I would like to make the family and she is not cooperating with me. When ever I called her and she is threatening me saying that I will file a criminal case against me and she is not telling that I don’t come and live with me. But instead she is saying, I will come, but she is denying telling the date of journey. If I ask many times, she is complaining every body that I am harassing her.She is threatening to file 498A. Kindly guide me what should I do now.

ashok rawat - mumbai

Name: ashok rawat
Comments: Hello,
My Wife has left my House since 4th March 2009 with her Father & Uncle. She is 7 Months Pregnant & is not allowing me to take care of her.She never accepts any thing from me.She is Staying with her Parents at her Village Baurari, Tehri Gharwal, Uttranchal.She Has made a Complaint against me in women Helpline at New Tehari,that i was Harassing her and was not providing her the Basic Needs,(Food Clothing & Shelter).

SHASHIPAL - kaithal-haryana india

Name: SHASHIPAL
Comments: ALREDY POSTED AT 498A.ORG

Debojit Deb - Guwahati, Assam, India

Name: Debojit Deb
Comments: Got married on 14-Dec-2003. A son was borne on 10-Oct-2004. She left on 7-Nov-2007. Filed case u/s. 125 Cr.P.C. on 1-Feb-2008 in Family Court. Not allowed to meet son. Was working before marriage and continued to work after marriage. Left job only few months before she left to her parents' house. Now again working in a different School. Expecting 498a/DV etc. if can't win 125 Cr.P.C. case.

satish - bangalore

Name: satish
Comments: Dear Sir

Case no - 498A and 506

I am from middile class family background and study is the only weapon thru with i am standing on my own legs.i have been cheated by my wifes family by giving wrong details about her education,external affairs..and she was not intersted and forced for a marriage by her parents..since they got a good profile groom..even that i was ok but day by day she started threatening and commits sucide attempts withou reason ..i was really worried and cruelty has been caused on me...stating she will file a dowry case incase

False case against me has been filed and they are demanding for the maintenance money.They have filed fir and arrested all our family memebers without our mistakes...i tried my best to correct my wife nothing worked out soo i have to filed for a divoroce after that
she filed a criiminal case against us.

pls call us to know more details..and help us to prove that we are innocent..