mmsingh - Chandigarh/U.T.

Name: mmsingh
Comments: Case filed for Children custody. Court passed order in Jan 08 for meeting once a month for 02 hours. She brought children in Feb08 on court's insistenace, Mar 08,Apr 08,Apr 09 & May 09. I have submitted a number of applications to court to take suitable action for not following court orders and when party failed regularly to produce the children give me the custody, nothing happens. Pl advise whether i can get the custody and what action can be initiated against her for not complying court orders.

sreekanth - Warangal Andhra Pradesh

Name: sreekanth
Comments: I got married in the year 2006 August 2nd and she stayed with me faraway from my parents for year and she left me in the month of 24th October 2007 saying that she would not willing to live life with me after that I have personally pleaded her to come back but she never turned up instead she started calling one of my friend who lives in USA and asking him that she doesn't want to hear my voice or any call from my end then I stopped doing that and before she left I was planning for my further studies in Switzerland and I have registered my Marriage in the Registrar Office at my place and included her name in my passport. Recently my dad met with an accident in the month of December so i had to go back to India and take care of him for period of a month and I have returned to Switzerland. They got knew that i have been in India for a while and they came along with 5 to 6 people forcing my mum and dad to call me back from Switzerland and they have answered properly saying that they have to wait untill i finish of my course which is due to be finished in the month of September 2008. Then they immediately went to the near by police station and complained against me my mom dad and sister whose husband has recently been met with an accident and lost his life and on my younger brother who doesn't stay with us. Police have called my mum and dad to the station and they haven't asked anything with my parents and they started using quite filthy language to my mom and dad only by listening to their version. And then next day they filed an FIR under section 498A saying that we are physically and mentally torturing her for the dowry, which is not true because she left me in the year 2007 and filed a case against me and my family after couple of years which is quite pathetic, my mom and sister got anticipatory bail couple of weeks back and my dads and brother petition were dismissed in the lower court and they appealed in the High court even their it has been dismissed stating that my dad and brother has to surrender in the lower court and bail should be provided immediately for them on that particular evening but our system mind set did not allow the Addl Judge who is apparently a lady did not accept the bail petition and dismissed the case and this is going on since Monday i.e 22nd of June 2008 and still the bail hasnt been approved and my dad who is a senior citizen and brother who is not at all concerned with our family ended up in Central District jail since monday. This has put my dad in a mental extorsion by the police and my wife and her family though we never asked for a dowry. Please could you give me a proper solution for this because I am not residing now in India and my family is facing lot of problems .

Thank you
Sreekanth Vodapalli

Tejpal Dahmiwal - Ch.Dadri (Bhiwani)Haryana

Name: Tejpal Dahmiwal
Comments: my wife & her perents ademeted that they give us dowry at the time of my mariege (in the chalan , FIR and avdens )
So I want to make a case in the section 3 or 4 in dowry prohibition act. Please give me advise how i done it? and some case daitels releted by this act

samar - chicago/il

Name: samar
Comments: I got married last year, but since engagement our families didn't gel together neither did we, many a times between engagement and marriage we were about to break the relation. At that time only mediators came in they negotiated, so we moved on. But there was some problem with girl's dad, he is like a psycho, short tempered and don't know what he is saying and has EGO bigger than anything else. Even girl's family interfered @ each n every small matter. then I moved to usa n the girl did many wrong things to my parents from last 7 months she is atying there and girl's family is asking for huge money to send her to me. we denied to give the same, so now they have started spreading rumors and threatening us for false allegation. Dont know what to do ?

Amol - Pune

Name: Amol
Comments: Meri wife bahot high temprecher wali hai. O apni family ( mom & Mavsi ) ki hi sunti hai. Hamare gharwalone o muze alg karna chahti hai. mere ghar me Mai,Wife or mera chota bhi rahta hai.Me re Pappa & Mom gav me rahte hai.Or uski gandi aadt hai zuth bolna or gharme chori karke ape Mom ko de dena. kuch jada bola to o Jandene ji dhamki deti hai.Mai to u se tang aa gaya hu. mai soch rara hu ki u se divorce de du ta ki u se or u s ke family ko samj aa ja ye.Lekin mu ze dar hai ki o muze 498 A case me fasa na de.

lucky - Indore

Name: lucky
Comments: my father in law ( a congress politician, ex minister minority and a lawyer) and my wife (Sanjita- a lawyer) has misused the IPC section 498 A and have filed a false FIR against me and police without even investigating the facts, without even meeting any of my family member has registered the same because my father in law is a congress politician and is an ex minister for minority for the state.

My wife, my sister in law and my father in law, all three are lawyers and have misused the law.

I had filed a case for RCR in the family court around a year back and the same is under consideration. The due date of the same is June 26, 2009. Then also my father in law by using his political pressure has managed to register a false case and is torturing me and my family. He wants us to sign some list of documents and is asking for a huge alimony out of court.

I have a recorded phone call where in he has threatened me that he will file a false case u/s 498A and will make me sit in jail with all my family members.

My father in law wants me to leave my family and stay at his place as a “Ghar Jamai” and I had denied to it. He then misguided my wife to leave my place and pressurize me for leaving my parents and stay at there place...as my father in law does not have a male child, he wants me to live with them else live in jail. I got married on December 14, 2007 and since April 05, 2009 my wife is staying with her parents. I have tried to bring her back a lot of times but she is not willing to stay with me and my parents. She wants me to live with her parents and sister.

I am ready to give an interview for this but want my name not to be disposed. I can share the recorded conversation between me and my father in law, wherein he has threatened me for filing up for a false dowry case and has asked 33% of my monthly salary as maintenance.

Saurabh - Kolkata

Name: Saurabh
Comments: Hi!

I got married in 2005 in Haryana,mine was a arrenged marraige. I am from Bengal, girl is from Haryana. Problem started when my mother in law came to my house to stay with her daughter. She stayed with us for 9 months & created a hell lot of problem. I was forced to leave my parents & to settle in Delhi. I got a job in Delhi & moved. I was putting my self in inlaws house on rent.
Problem started again when I found out that my mother in law was having relationship with numerous men, she even chats in net with a from a young girls profile.She has developed psychological problem. She was not staying with her husband for quite some time & she ultimatly got divorced a few months back. Now the problem is though mine was arrenge marraige, I was not told about this before.
My wife is very close to her mother & she gets influenced by her heavily. Even she fights with me regrding this. My wife has a habit of comming down to physical viloence in every little matters with a drop of a hat. From day one she is crying for divorce & also makes it a point she will not going to give it to me easily. But I dnt want it. I have got a 2 year old kid.

I leaft my home on May last week after a bitter confrontation. I was litteraly kicked out of home. I came to my parents. Now she has filled fraud complaints of dowery, physical assult, torture against me & my family in Womens Cell & regularly she & her mother abuse my parents & me. She is asking for comensation of 40 lacs. Yeasterday was my sons birthday & I was not being allowed to talk to him, infact for the last to months I was only able to talk to him once. I am in terrible state of mind. All my bellongings, car is their.I have already visisted Womens cell twice and filled a Restoration of Conjugal Life.
I am going through immense mental trauma. Pl advice

Raman - LUDHIANA/PUNJAB

Name: Raman
Comments: My marriage was solemnised at Mihali . i am from ludhiana, My laws are all in Newzealand PR. i have spent 3 lakhs in marriage to thier part, my side is other part. and afetr one month she had talked to other unknmown persons , i never know them.
After some time i know all story. that i am frauduly cheated by my laws. They filled my case as a visitor visa. Before leaving the indis they d4mand from me 3 lakhs more . i gave them 2 lakhs. My interview was come after gone them . When i qas in interview then i got all story real story they cheat me thay had already sponsored two persons before me. Cases were also running with my case in embassy.after knowing all this i quit this case and take all documents.

I reject them to give more money so they old me that if u not give me money then we will not issuing your visa that will be on hold .

So i have all mails where i recieved the money demanding mails and telefone records.

So now we are fighting i also filled the application in Frard staff but none of officer cheec that file. But on the other hand we got harrasement by the chandigarh cells MAHILA MANDAL AND MD CELL they got all my documents where they know i am innocent, they help them i dnt know whats the matter..

So they now give us a torture for 498a case.

I am in trouble now . my wife cheated me frauded me bec gthey are all PERMANANT OF NZ. They want money only .

plz help

t.srinivasarao - guntur,andhrapradesh

Name: t.srinivasarao
Comments: they were arrshing since2007.they put in case aganist me and family members on april 2007 . they did not want put case only thier aim are blackmail money from me 500000lakhs so they always drag into the policestation since 2007.now today(21th 2009,june) they gave compliant in polisation .at this movement what do i am? if i want put case in polition. it is helpfull for me please give advise
THANK U

K MAHEH BABU - Chennai

Name: K MAHEH BABU
Comments: She left my company on 20-04-2005, surprisingly without any notice to me. By the time she left the house, she was carrying 6th month of pregnancy and the custom in all the Hindu families is that no pregnant woman should leave the husband and join her parent's house in any even month of carrying pregnancy. Immediately after she left me in such a surprising manner, I wrote her a letter by register post where as I wrote to her parents' address at Salem. It showed her attitude that she did not care the health while she was a pregnant. I made it very much clear in my letter to her, how I suffered mental agony on her attitude and I requested her to keep on writing letters to me about her health as she was a pregnant., as I was very much concerned about her health and the health of the baby. She did not care to give a reply. It was a sin on her part to leave me without information. She should at least write me a letter expressing sorry for her attitude and even after the receipt of a letter from me, she did not bother to give a reply. This attitude of her showed very clearly, how cruel she is and how best she was as my wife.
As there was no reply to my letter, I wrote her another letter by R.P. She received the letter not in your parents' town but at some other village. Then she might be in 7th month of pregnancy if there was no abortion. I made a mention in that letter that she did not give a reply to my previous letter. I have also informed her in the said letter that some police people were enquiring my particulars and I also expressed a doubt that the said police could not come to me without her knowledge. I was very much worrying about her health and expressed the same in the letter. I again called her for giving a reply to me and to keep in touch with me, about her health and the medicines she was taking, by way of letters. In spite of the said letter also she did not respond to give any reply.
Again I wrote her a letter by RP. As there was no reply for this letter also, I gave her a telegram on 26-06-2005 enquiring her why she was not informing me about your health and why she was not giving reply to any of my letters. This telegram was also not answered by her. Her attitude in this connection was very much cruel against me.
In such a situation, knowing fully well about the attitude of her parents, with an intention to see her directly and to know her health in the late pregnancy period, I went directly to her parents' house in the middle of July 2005 and I was abused with unparliamentary language, outside the house of her parents and I was assaulted by her father and his supporters who were not known to me. All my efforts to enter in to the house proved futile. They did not even heed my request to call her at least out side the house and to allow me to talk to her. I don't think that she did not know the said incident. Taking note of all these things and after noticing her unbearable attitude, I was forced not to think of anything about her.
Very long time after I stopped to think about her, again it was a surprise that she wrote a letter during Apr 2006. Her letter was full of serious allegations against me. The said allegations against me and against my father reveals the fact that she is not in a habit of telling a truth in her life. I questioned her why in the said lengthy letter of her also, she did not try to explain why she did not answer any of my letters and why she did not write me any letter for such a long time after she left my company without any notice to me? Along with serious false allegations against me she have also attributed some stories in her letter that she have left her jewel, sari etc. with me. The letter seems to be a legal letter from her and not a real letter from her mind with a real intention of coming to live with me. For a technical reason she had given an order or a direction to me in the letter to come to her house to take her along with me. She might have possessed with an idea to beat me in her house if I went to her house. If she wanted to come to live with me the letter must be in a separate shape. She might have explained in the letter why she did not write any letter to me in spite of number of letters from me; she might have felt sorry for her father's attitude when I went to her parents house in the month of July 2005; she might have felt sorry for the reason that herself and her parents have asked a Mahila Sangam people to issue a notice to me while she was staying with me; she might have expressed sorry for sending some police constables after she left me without notice.
To my surprise even prior to the receipt of her letter, my officer also received a letter from her and the said letter is also filled with full of lies and some new allegations which were not mentioned in the letter written to me. Is it an effort from her to join me or is it an effort from her to do some thing more harmful against me. Is it the way she wanted me to take her for living together?
At that juncture I recollected important things; while shewas carrying fourth month pregnancy, her father along with some others came to our house. They did not ask me to send her along with them but they gave me an order that they were taking her along with them. I tried to tell them that it was not good and auspicious to take her to their house in the fourth month of pregnancy. Then they shouted me adding that they would put me in troubles if I did not simply fallow them. Then I left the matter to her and she also stood to the position that it was not good to leave to her parents' house in the fourth month of pregnancy.
In the letter written to me, she had attributed a false allegation against me or against my parents that we tried for abortion of her pregnancy. The medical examinations reveal the true picture. She tried her best to convince me for allowing her for abortion saying that her health was not good. To take an advice from the doctors, I took her to Doctor for examining her and her fear of keeping the pregnancy and her intention of abortion were told to the doctors. The doctor has examined her and after seeing all the reports like ultra sound scanning etc. the doctor has advised her that there was nothing to fear and that there would be a normal delivery. Again during Mar 2005, the same doctor has examined her and she again said that there was nothing to worry. Even at that juncture she tried to put me in pressure that her health was not normal and she wanted to have abortion. Within a few days after she was examined by the doctor on second occasion and as her request for abortion was not accepted, a Mahila Sangam notice came to me and she expressed her innocence that she was not aware of the said notice. In these circumstances, she left my company from Chennai to her parents’ house with a secret planning that too in the sixth month of pregnancy. Immediately after she left my company, without taking care that any pregnant woman would take, she left her parents house also and she have changed her place of residence to so many places. My efforts to see her were forcibly obstructed. Except on seeing the letter dated xx Apr 2006 from her I was not informed the birth of the child. All these things are raising a doubt in my mind that she might have gone to her parents' house without any notice to me and without caring that she should not go to your parents' house in the sixth month of pregnancy only with an intention to have abortion/ termination of her pregnancy. For the said reason only she might have left her parents house to see that the known people in her residential area should not know her attempts of abortion. Keeping silence for about 9 months after the alleged delivery might also be for a preparation to have created a child with her. It might be the reason that I was forcefully obstructed to enter in to her parents' house so that I could not see her. This is only a doubt raised in my mind on seeing her attitude and on seeing her way of writing a letter and on seeing her attempt in writing a letter to my officer with all false allegations.
Under these circumstances I was forced to ask her to explain me all about my doubts and about her actual behaviour of leaving me and leaving her parents house, not responding to write letters to me, assaulting me to see that I should not enter into her parents house to see her etc. and also her behaviour of not informing me for about 9 months about the delivery and her behaviour of writing a letter to my officer, without waiting to see my reaction on seeing her letter.
I request her through my letter xx June 2006, to respond to answer these questions immediately.
There after I letter dated 05 Dec 2006, from All Women Police Station, Sooramangalam, Salem City., Which was received by me on 14th Dec 2006.
Based on that we got AB from High Court of Madras on 22 Dec 2006. we submitted surities at Salem Court within the stipulated period.
The FIR U/S 498a and 506 (II) registered on 03 Jan 2007.
Then she filed a maintenance case under Cr Pc 125 at Salem Family court on 28 Mar 2007.
After waiting for a long time I filed a divorce pitetion in the family court Chennai which was subsequently transfered to Salem.
And the cases are pending before courts.

Recently I have received threatening calls telephonically from unknown No. that they are police men and an arrest warrent has been issued by the court.

Is it possible to issue an arrest warrent, that after a lapse of about 2 and a half years without any notices either from court/ police or without even any inquary/ invetigation/ charge sheet from police.

Kindly advice/ help me in this matter.

with regards
K Mahesh babu.

Annonymous - CA

Name: Annonymous
Comments: Hi,
I have been in the US for 109 years and just submitted my divorce papers to my wife. My green card is pending approval at the embassy for the last 8 years. I am now hearing that her family is planning to file a false dowry case against me at the Indian embassy to make me come to India and put me in jail. Is this possible? Will the Indian embassy belive them without any proof?
Thanks for your help!

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abdul slam - surat/gujarat

Name: abdul slam
Comments:

Dt.:-28/04/2009
Respected president of India Pratibha patil ji.

1). Abdul Salam Abdul Karim Tali, residing at 301, Al Madina Appt., Sufiji Gali, Bade Khan Chakla, Surat, Gujarat- 395001.CONTACT NO. 9974338345

v/s

2) Mrs. Shamim Banu, residing at A/80, Gate No: 1, Marwari Chawl, Dowri Nagar, Santacruz (e), Mumbai- 400 055. CONTACT NO.9892236283.

My wife had filled a false case against me of 498-A, 34 in bandra sdm coart case no.67/09 & ,125. in bandra family coart case no e-596/2008 According to this supreme court ordered protesting against the CrPC amendments police cannot arrest me directly without investigation in this Act then also the police of Wakola had arrested me and my parents by destroying my and my parents Image and reputation in the society which was really a merciful, now there is a question arising that we are true or not for that I will proof briefly as below :-

Just check out the police record against my father in law Mr. Mohammed Aziz Mansuri and his son Mohammed Safi Mansuri, you will recognize how this people are harassing mentally, Physically and financially to the society, they had made this business to make money in short time, how greedy they are and making the misuses of Act 498-A and 125 IPC. The minister Renuka Chaudhary, a committee member of the committee of empowerment of women, had given this interview in NDTV that 98% women are making misuse of this act then also uptill now no changes had been made.

You can see the background of my wife and her family members they had done the marriage of their younger daughter and now they are asking for money for the settlement by this you can know how greedy and how professional being by misusing of 498A and 125 IPC.

My wife had given a false statement in Wakola police station which is clearly seemed to be false. She had given a statement that I had attacked on her head with knife by inserting knife into her head up to 2-3 inches inside, while lady police had asked her that where is the sign where the knife has inserted in her head, by this question only she was caught that she was giving a false statement which was teached by her parents, for this I had attached that statement copy with this complaint.

As they had started giving me Physically, Mentally and financially Stress by filling false case IPC 125 in Bandra family court and 498A filled in Bandra 32 SDM Court, by this the problem arises every date given by both the court and both the court are issuing several hearing dates different day by which I have to make up down from surat to Mumbai once a week. These circumstances are creating money crises to me as I am doing service in a shop, but due this problem I am unable to attend the job daily, due to this I am not getting the salary even to travel to Mumbai and attend the dates issued by court., by this you can recognize that how I am suffering due to this false case.

From last 17 month I am suffering due to the mental harassment given by my wife and her parents. They are demanding money to settle this cases. From starting onwards of my marriage they had started demanding money from me and I had given them also several times. Once a time I had received a advance money from my customer for new computer, I had taken that money to my house by this thought that I will assemble new computer next day, while sleeping at night my wife took that money which I received from my customer along with my child had ran away in the midnight to Mumbai without informing me from my rented house which I had taken only for her wish to stay separately from my parents at nanpura, Surat.. As she had make a call to me by saying that “when my father had asked you for money you had refused to give him, but now I had taken the money and given to father , so don’t worry about that”, this incident has taken place on 15/07/2006.

They had filled two false cases one in Family Court that I am earning Rs. 30,000/- per month and from which they need Rs. 15,000/-, and in SDM Court they stated that I was asking Rs. 50,000/- as dowry. From her parents, as she was staying with her parents since 17 months.and I was not allowing to meet my wife and also both my children’s. On 01/11/2008 I went to Mumbai to meet my wife and my children’s but they attacked me and hurted my head. As I complained about this matter at wakola police station but they didn’t filed the FIR against them and only registered the N.C. Complain (No. 5671/2008, 01/11/2008), at that time I was injured badly and was bleeding. I told the police personnel’s to file my complain in hindi but they refused and told me to sign me in a complain which was written in marathi which I couldn’t understand. If you think that I am laying then you can see the cc camera tv recording of 01/11/2008 of Wakola police station.

I had given complaints in written on 27/12/2008 to (1). Sr. Police Inspecter, Samajseva Branch, Mumbai, (2) Asst. Police Commissioner, Bandra Zone, Mumbai, (3) D.C.P Bandra Kurla Branch, Mumbai,(4) Sr.Inspector ,Vakola, Santacruz. But I can’t under stand that why they not taken any action against my complain while they had complain on 15/01/2009 and action had been taken why ? I think you can better understand this circumstances. They are trying to make me criminal any how . I had attached that copies of the complaints herewith.

Since last 17 months I was not allowing to meet my children’s, they are demanding money and threatening me that they have many sources to secure money from my side. Whenever I cal to their number to talk to children’s they receive the call and disconnect it after few seconds and second time when I call they uses such words which I cannot mention in this statement but I have recorded it in my cell.

They are saying that that I had, kick them out from house on 29th Dec.2007, which is fully false statement because I have four person as witness which can prove that how false they are I.am attaching affidavit of that four person .

If their parents are using their daughters to make money in such a way then what will be the future of my childrens, as they have already changed the their names and surname.

I want to ask the government, why such law you making in which u can’t do the investigation and taking blind action against husband family?, why when wife’s does the suicide the police take the action against husband and his family and why when husband does suicide no action is taken against wife and his family ? just give me answer that if I am doing suicide will government or law will take action against my wife and her family. Sir I am really ruined in this matter by physically, mentally and financially , now I am seeing death better than life .There is not fixed that how long I can bear this matter , my mental is so disturb due to this harassment. My next court date issued on 09/06/2009 and family court on 22/06/2009, you can see how false harassment is doen on me ,just once a day keep your self on my place you will know what a worst life I m suffering ,just due to misused of this act because no investigation tacking place once you do the special investigation you will know what is true and false .

Hope you will take strict action against such person who are making law as a business and misusing to make money in easy way.

Kindly look after this matter as a father who had done every thing what ever they needed and even left his parents only for his childrens, and now I can only watch my childrens future being letting inside dark but cannot do anything for them. I am not a well educated person, so one of my friend had translated this statement from Hindi to English. So please forgive me if you find any mistake in the wordings .

Thanking you,

Abdul salaam Tali
09974338345

Copy to:-

1). Respected president of India Smt. Pratibha Patil ji
2) Respected prime minister of India Shri. Manmohan Singh ji
3) Respected Shri. P. Chidambaram Ji
4) Respected Smt. Renuka Chaudhary Ji
5) Respected chef minister of Gujarat Shri Narendr Modi ji
6) Respected chef minister of maharashtra Shri. Ashok Chowhan ji
7) Respected National Human Rights Commission (Investigation)
8) Respected Law & Justice Minister Shri H.R. Bhardwaj Ji
9) Respected Minister of Social Justice & Empowerment
10) Respected Police commissioner Mumbai

premkumar - coimbatore / Tamilnadu

Name: premkumar
Comments: A false DV case was filled on me on 1.8.08 and a intreme order for custody of minor child ( boy 5.8 years old then)knowingly that GWOP 5 years and above father is the guardian which was given in writing to them on 30.6.08 itself in the police station at coimbatore, Case pending at Trichy court mean time I filled a Quash with High court on Sec. 2Q ( women can not be respondent) & aganist the summons send by the mej. and other facts.

Can you guide me on some precedents of DV quash so that it would be of great help to me since my case is up for hearing on 25th also some other grounds if any in DV since it is a new law inc. the lawyers are not fully aware of all the points.

With regards

prem

joseph - Kozicode, kerala

Name: joseph
Comments: Iam married on 09/05/2002 .I have been cheated by the girl and her family and church mumbers and the priest together. The girl is having the bleeding from 15 years onwards and the parents they konw very well about it they treated the girl for long period and not cured. They suppressed this fact and they very conning way pushed this girl in to marriage, giving some druges from some doctor and this girl also co-oprated with her parents and got married at church. with in 10 days I have got married and travelled to Gulf along with my parents,After coming here, I came to know the problem of her .As per her word and documents, medical reports from her I have decided according to my parents advice to do treatment at gulf and I have treated her four years still not cured , temperarly releaf and again she was suffering This matter from the begnning I have informed her parents but they informed me that Due to heat in gulf she may be suffering They totally refused that she was having this chronic illness. After 4 Years with my parents went to home and called her parents and informed and and talked to them openly that according to our medical report she is having polister overy which canot cured by medicine beacause 90 percentage polyster overy is formed .So that I have informed her parents. Her parents asked us 3 months time for treatment and I have given to her parents to treat her and get medical report from D G O along with Scan report . I have written the statement in stammp papper that If with in three months they did not come back to me, means myself and She will seperate and get divorce. And she agreed that I can marry another girl to have a child because she is not able to have a child for me due to her illnes, or to continue the family life too. and she has written that she is not having any objection in this matter she singed and her parents singed and other family mumbers too. all this matters is taken in vedio tape. But they send scan report from private lab after six months. And informed us to take her to gulf otherwise they will take proper step. But I did not reply Now they called after 2 years informed that they will put case againt us that cruality by parents and huband and they booked a case in police staion this matter they informed us now three years over after leaving her at her home. with parents . My parents are in Gulf along with me, my wife was here in gulf for four years and taken treatment. please advice me how to handle this problem to get rid of it . I do not want to take her back beacuse I have suffered very badly pysically and mentally and finacially also. I want to get marry another girl for another offspring in family Iam only one son for my parents and I have got one sister she is married and she is having two children . My parents are 60 years they want to see grant child now total 7 years passed after marriage. please advice me, my and parents could not go to india , because we are fearing that the other party can misuse 498A pinal code and take case against to us and put us in trouble . please advice and send to me email.

Navin Albert - richardson

Name: Navin Albert
Comments: Abuse of law by girls parents after separation.

Neeraj Julka - Pune / Mumbai

Name: Neeraj Julka
Comments: We're both well educated with decent jobs in large private firms. Our marriage was a Non consummated marriage - due to her physical and mental problems which she could never get over despite visits to doctors and counsellors. She had a very abusive behaviour and a very short fuse and would get upset over the smallest of non-issues and display wild behaviour. She also had an abusive behaviour towards my parents. Has on a couple of occasions tried to stab me, has broken my office laptop and a lot of other things. In the first 3 months, made sure that all jewelry given by us to her as well as that given by her parents to me was kept in a joint locker that she opened with her father. Our marriage that lasted 3 years was an extremely rocky one and despite attempts to woo her, all have come a nought. For 3 years she refused to contribute to any household work and it was me who managed everything. We also had in the interim purchased a home when my salary was thrice hers. When the marriage collapsed she filed a police complaint alleging mental and physical harrassment and dowry against me and my parents. Since this police case was lodged, I had to leave Navi Mumbai, where we had our property and had to move in with my parents in Pune. She and her parents have now moved in to our property and are trying to force a settlement in cahoots with the Police. We are severely stressed and need help and guidance to combat the situation she has put us into.

Piyush - Ghaziabad

Name: Piyush
Comments: My Case Starts When I Resigned from my Job from ABN Amro bank UAE and Joined Barclays In UAE itself for Visa Change I have 2 take an Exit as per rules in UAE , So I came Back to India my Home Country for 5-6 Days . In the Mean Time My marriage get fixed by our Parents with acceptance of both me n my wife . and we did court marriage So that when I went to UAE Again then I can apply for Visa of her , but our Tradittional Marriage waz fixed after 6 months . after six months I came bak to India again and did marriage publically last year . we both went to UAE . I told my wife about my package n all . when we reached there i asked her that if she can do job only then we can Live in this country oterwise its not possible for me to live . After that Time She Start Claiming me that I forced her to do Job n asked for money . Finally We went to India and I Join a job here in my own town and start living with my parents and wife . Everyday my Wife used abusing Words for my parents and Said they are not giving food to me , Suddenly she start shouting that we beat her . and we are asking for dowry . I get too tensed after all this and I decide to join another Job that is away from my home just to balance my family and I Join another Job 800 Km Away from my home for my wife i leave my parents I always cry for that that what I am doing but Ok If by this my wife gets happy i will sacrifice . Then there she again started her daily schedule that u will not Talk with ur parents on phone also and start using abusing words , One night wen i was driving a car she moved my stearing because I tak with my parents that day . Next day morning wen i becum ready for office she locked the door of our room nd start shouting that " Please help me my Husband is Baeting me " I was shocked at that moment as I was tottaly unaware by this and our neighbours they suddenly come at my door and told me to open the door but Key was with my wife how can I Open the Door . I was Tottaly Trapped , I took Key from her hand and open the door , every one start shouting on me . No body knws that I not even touch her , she shows her tears . she called at her home and asked her parents to come they said Ok , I told every thing there at my office coleagues and they suggest me to go bak at ur home nw and told every thing to ur parents , I told everything to my parents and came back alone at my home . In the mean time my wife called at my office and talk with my Natinal sales manager , That why u r recruting that type of employees who asked for dowry , he beats me everyday , he drunks everyday etc etc . I loosed my job also . Then I start helping to my father in his business as he is businessman , her parents came to our home n her brother fight with my father n stole his mobile also which he return after 3-4 days in dead condition , nd i m unable to do nything . she again start living now with us in our joint family , now after Crashed my carrer everyday she used to say abusing words to my father that he is impotent and ur motheris callgirl . Now I cant Tolerate her nd Finally decided to leave her . As she also said that I will told to police that ur parents nd u asked for dowry , beating me , not giving food to me , I didnt able to handle this problem and my life is trapped please suggest me what to do , As I decide to leave her now.

Abid Hussain - Saudi Arabia

Name: Abid Hussain
Comments: I am working in saudi arabia from last 14 years. December 27 2008 i got married a neighbouring girl in my loaclities. This was a arranged marriage through match maker.I stayed for 45 days after marriage and left saudi arabia on 13 Feb 2009. The time of engagement i had just given my words to girl's family that i will TRY to take her to saudi but things dont just the way we think.On my part i tried but due to some reason i wasnt able to take her to saudi. My wife started creating
problem for the moment she came to know i cant take her. She started fight n argument with my mother n sisters.Somehow i manage in a nice way to go to her house n stay there till i send visas for coming to saudi.I even removed her passport from her house itself. My wife's attitude n behaviour is very bad with me n my family.I even complained to her parents, her uncle n aunty but in vain. They supported her n encouraged her. I had fight n arguement with family members several times on this issue. Finally when i saw there no hope i stopped taking calls altogether from my wife n inlaws. Things got deterioted day by day n they wanted to settle the dispute on there terms with force n dadagiri. But i didnt gave a dam to their threat or succumb to there intimidation. Now finally my wife n her family had filed a false dowry case against me and my family. They filed FIR (498 AND ANOTHER 3-4 FALSE CASES OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE , TORTURE, HARASSEMENT).The local police if in hand in glove with this people.My mother n my 3 married sisters r arrested n kept in police custody on false charges.My younger brother is slapped with a attempted rape charges by my wife. Me and my family has never demanded any dowry or anythings from girls family. But they had mentioned in FIR that they given me 37 lakhs worth of things ( like plasma tv, fridge, washing machine, television, gold ornaments and many more things. FRankly speaking this a sheer harassement case. The police is asking abt the things (RECOVERY) which they hadnt given to us.Whatever small things like cupboard n bed n some house hold things which they had given in wedding is still lying in my house untouched. I had requsted them not to give anything to me during marriage as our house is too small to accomdate more things.My wife is staying in her house from 13-14 months. BUT in FIR she mentioned that she is staying with us.Now all false case has been registered with support of police .I would be grateful and will be thankful from bottom of my heart if u could please please please help me n my family in this critical situation.I cant afford a good lawyer coz financially i am not that strong. Some how i borrowed money from my friend so that atleast my family get bail but the corrupt police had OPPOSE bail.Please call this number: (RUKSHANA)09323839664 . This is my younger sister cell number or e-mail me : mk_abid@hotmail.com. Any help at this junction will highly appreciable. If possible please send me ur detail contact number. Hope to to the needful.

sincerely

Abid hussain
mk_abid@yahoo.com

(RUKSHANA CELL : 09323839664

John Ebanezar - Chennai

Name: John Ebanezar
Comments: She left me with my daughter aged 3 on 2.06.2007.She is Govt. Employee earning monthly Rs.15000/-.She got transfer to her village without my knowledge. She has taken all the jewels, including myself and my daughter.Two months before she left one man aged 34 visit our house and introduced as her brother and threatens to go to police, now he married my wife's sister. I suspect illicit relationship between them. For the last two years we have no contct. Suddenly on 30.01.09 their relatives called on my mobile and threatend to file false dowry harassment complaint and they did it the next day.My parents,sister and I got anticipatory bail from High Court. The police got money from her side and asked me to resign my job and stay with her leaving my aged parents alone. The highcourt asked to come for mediation on 11.06.09. What can I do in this circumstances? Please advise.

pandian - madurai

Name: pandian
Comments: She has PCOD problem since her age 12. once in two years she get periods(some times it may increase). Treated more than 4 years. Tried ICSI also. No use. Due to her health condition, removed her one side felobian tube also. Tried with famous gynac drs in tamilnadu. spent more than 6 lacs for treatment. No proper support from her family. Drs are keen to collect the money and they are saying you have to try IVF atleast 10 times. But it costing min. 1.5 lacs each time. It is very difficult in terms of money aswellas mental worries. Then i applied for divorce(HMOP). After two months of this, she filed dowry harrasment against me. Myself and my whole family taken to womans police station and kept for whole day. Due to some big political influence we came out. They filed FIR and now it is in court. But trial not yet started due to judges un avalability. She is not willing to give divorce. Her father is a criminal and every day he is tourcher us. we are very small and affectinate family. Please help me to get divorce for this medical problem.
Please dont publish it in your blog spot, pls send mail to me.

gaurav malik - delhi

Name: gaurav malik
Comments: my wife booked me & my family in 498A/506/323/120b/406 and she provide medical&2 persons as witness . in this case she asked that we go their for 4 times and raise a demand of 10 laks rs and brand new accent car .she also give the dates also. according to them 1st time they gave 70000/- 2nd time 50000/- 3rd time 10000/- 4th time they dined then my mother & my bhabhi caught her from hands me and my both brother beat her with dandas and ran away fom their.this incedent took place on 17 feb09 .mywife goes from here on 15.02.09 with her parents we call 100 no /writen comp: to neares ps . how can we took her to their place if she go their on 15 feb what we do i shall be thank ful to u .my mother &elder broter stay in jail for 5 days my self stay for 15days other get anticeratory . she can again booked me in any offence like 326 ipc i m very upset pls help us.

Rajesh - hyderabad

Name: Rajesh
Comments: Hi,mine is love marriage and we got married against her parents wish but my family accepted her. marriage was commenced in the month of jan in arya samaj, becoz of her parents pressure we kept reception in the month of march 2nd. her mother use to call her and always use to threaten her emotionally. becoz of it there was few arguements within us but it was not so serious. On march 24th she went for her P.G counselling to her house and dint come back. her mother stopped her from calling me then later came and took dresses and gold.later sent me a court notice stating to give divorce and money.Along with that filed 498A against said members but by gods grace we got anticipatory bail without any arrest.there are coming for settlement, in settlement thay want us to give gold,money before they file the petition for criminal case. they are saying we vl first file petition for divorce case then later file petition for criminal case which we can dismiss it. i am in big dilema what to do, to tell frankly i want to get rid of it becoz of me i cant make my family run behind court, can u plz suggest me the best legal advice.

Plz help me out !!!! i am also sufferer of this 498A

Regards
Rajesh

chandresh - thane/maharashtra

Name: chandresh
Comments: Please, for God's sake, remove this law. Its against Humanity. Me and my family got harassed due to this law.She was fraud. Killed my 4 week child in her initial stage of pregnancy. Got us behind bars (me my father n elder brother) for 48 hrs. And she is still not satisfied with this much of harassment. And case is going on in court.

GAURAV MANGLA - Panchkula/Haryana

Name: GAURAV MANGLA
Comments: Hi Due to my wife parental interference our marriage life suffer alot.She filed a case against me.& now they demanding 1 flatin delhi & my house & 50lac cash to resolve the issue & send her back. My hearing will scheduled on 8th June 20009.i am helpless did nothing

rijumahendra - Guwahati/Assam

Name: rijumahendra
Comments: myself Anisha wife of a Pers Whose is servicing in G.I.C.India.He already divorced his first wife. That marriage was last only for fifty days.Divorce was mutually completed. In view He is a gentelmen,nobody knows his brutal nature,

It is 2005 june 17th our marriage was performed in a Mandir.In the very next morning (18Th)my father in law talk to me "why did you marry him? He is just a Mental(pagal)" . After that it is a regular programe for me to physically assult.I was just keep quite till now I just want to keep up my SANSAR. I was miscarriaged due to his assult(one time). Now I m a mother of 18(Eighteen) months Girl and staying with my parents(Maika).Now He threatned me that he will take my girl from me, and he will not accept me.What should I do now.....

Guru - London

Name: Guru
Comments: Hi, I have got married last year 27th April 08 in Mumbai. My wife is from Gurgaon I have placed ad inthe Times of India by that I have got married . I work and live in London. In her Bio -Data and photo I have shown the Interest in her . As I live abroad thats reason I have not did much check on her details as her father is working for SBI and sister is working for Nestle and brother is working for IT firm . I thought and they have win my trust about her fake qualification, Height, DOB, Job Details and created a total wrong picture in front of me and shown a wrong somebodies house to show the fictitious status. After marriage I have found she is only 12 and don't know how to speak english and and all Job is Senior Merchandiser which I have found that she is working on the Sewing machine. All fake information she told in Bio data she is graduated from Rohtak University Haryana after 4 months asking for certificate she have send me the fake certificate of Chattisgarh university which she never mention and written. I have come to know all truth when her first visa got declined then i have asked all these certificate they are all fake. Now she has pose on family 498A, and 506, 406 case which we never demand forany dowry . I have already gave her around 4 lakhs jewellers and I bear all the marriage expeneses as well. Now I am in total loss with this marriage because they have cheated me and gave all the wrong information to do the marriage once I have come to know all the truth I have didn't called her here in UK BECAUSE I have lost trust in her and family. Now they are put on me and my family these above legal IPC DHARAS. Please help me if you can or show me how I can fight against what they are using against me and my family 498A, 506 AND 406.

Sudha - New Delhi

Name: Sudha
Comments: Dowry and Harrasement case

javed - sydney

Name: javed
Comments: iam a muslim, i came to know my wife's affair still continuing after marriage. she denies it all and my inlaws are asking me for evidence for same. my wife lives in india with my parents. i live in canada and about to take up canadian citizenship and i would loose my indian citizenship.

if they file 498a. will i be summoned to come to india for legal proceedings. or my family has to bear torture for same. how do i handle the situation from here on? please suggest.

Kalpana Tiwari - uttar pradesh Agra

Name: Kalpana Tiwari
Comments: Respected sir,
my name is Kalpana Tiwari wife of Ratan kumar tiwari.marriage was held on 21-04-07 but i am living seperate from my husband since
21-11-07.after marriage verbally & mentally,i had been assaulted by
my husband .I came back to my parent's home and i did not file any case against him because first i want to complete my education.I have completed my LL.M(F).now I am doing M.B.A .I don't want divorce.but everyone want me to take divorce for my better future.
so i want to know ,Is there any remedy for me which warn to my husband not to repeate past mistakes in future.

sivaprasadvarma - hyderabad

Name: sivaprasadvarma
Comments: she stayed with me for 3 months.they thredned me take back my wife and live separtlity with my wife.I donot accept.
they filled case.i was jaied for 6 days. my mother for 1 day.
now demanding 3 lakhs for withdrawing the case.

RAJESH KUMAR - KOLKATA WEST BENGAL

Name: RAJESH KUMAR
Comments: I WAS MARRIED ON FEB' 2008, WIFE MOSTLY LIVED 90 DAYS WITH OUR FAMILY. 498A REGISTERED IN MARCH 2009. WE ALL ARE ABSCONDING AS POLICE TAKEN MONEY AND NOT ARRESTED US NOW WHAT SHOULD WE DO TO GET RID OF THE CASE PLZ SUGGEST US.

lucky - ludhiana

Name: lucky
Comments: wife got filed the case ,due to igo problem there is nothing like the demand of dowry her parents want me to live the life of slave to them.the other sactions as 307,120 got deleted by the ips officer,one of themwas of Dsp rank the other was of Asp both of the time our truth come out these officers realised the whole case is filed under a conspirasy,but they tell us about the helplessness to delete the 406,498-a,eventhough i had the written letter by the hand of my father in law and other reletives of them in which they have admitted that the merriege will took place in a simple way and there is no demand of dowry even than the false case is registered against me and my family members, so you are requested to advised me what to do to face the case i have two kids elder is the baby boy of 3years,other is the girl iwant to have there custody also