30 April, 2009

nilesh puri - new delhi

Name: nilesh puri
Comments: DEAR SIR/MAM, THIS IS ABOUT MY SISTER , WHO AWS MARRIED ABOUT 11 YRS BACK,AND AT THAT TIME SHE WAS 21 YRS OLD AND UDERGONE BA-11 YRS EXAM.
AT THE TIME OF MARRIAGE IT WAS TOLD BY THEM THAT THE BOY IS A GRADUTAE , BUT AFTER MARRAIGE WE CAME TO KNOW THAT HE IS 8TH FAIL. MY SISTER HAS TWO DAUGHTERS AGED 7 , 11 YRS . THEK TOOK THE COMPLETE GOLD OF MY SISTER COSTING AROUND 22LAKHS BOTH SIDE , AND THEY ARE A VERY SOUND PEOPLE AT THGE TIME OF MARRIAGE AS THEY WERE BUILDERS. BUT AFTER SOMETIME THEY SHOWED THEMSELVES BANKRUPTED. AND BY THE WAY OF HELPING THEM MY SISTER GIVE THEM COMPLETE GOLD ORNAMENTS . MY FATHER GIVE THEM MONEY SO MANY TIMES , WHICH THEY DONT PAY US BACK. THEY TWICELY PUT THE KEROSINE ON MY SISTER CHILDREN , FOR NOT GETTING MONEY ,SHE LIVED IN JOINT FAMILY. SHE DOESNT PAY THE SCHOOL FEES OF BOTH CHILDRENS AS IT IS BORROWED BY MY SISTER. MY SISTER ALSO TRIED SOCIET TWICE. THEY ARE ACTUALLY 4 SISTER & , I AM THEIR
COUSIN BROTHER , AND BY SEEING ALL THIS WANT TO KNOW WHAT WE CAN DO.
PLS FOR GOD SAKE HELP US :
REGARDS

29 April, 2009

Satish Chopde - Thane/Maharashtra

Name: Satish Chopde
Comments: Had already DV case against us. Running over two yesrs. In her home town. Case is on. Have to deposit Rs.1500/- per month. In court. As per order. For maintenance.

Another appeal at HIgh Court. In another city.

And now last month, this 498A. Have got bail. Had to spend several days at Police Sation. Suffered loss of income. Mental harassment.

Shame that under Dv, for two years have been attending dates, paying 1500/- as per order, by another court. And we have never met for over 4 years now. She deserted me 4 years back. She was a very cruel woman also.

Think she will file cases in every city in the country, if she can.

abhishek - kanpur(u.p.)

Name: abhishek
Comments: on 23/mar/2009 my wife was preg. for 1.5 months.she left my home on 24/03/09 with her parents with a trust that she would return back after 2-3 days and make a cross examine to her doctor.on 25/03/09 she checked up n aborted my baby on 26/04/09 without informed me n my parents.after that i went her home to take her back but she n her parents denied this.n make to try torture that i if will not give 10 laks to her parents for her younger sister's marriage then they will file a false dowry case agnst me n my parents.after that i have filed a case agnst her on the IPC Section 9 for "VIDAI".PLS HELP ME SUCH THAT ME N MY PARENTS WILL NOT SUFFER FROM A FALSE DOWRY CASE!!!!!

Ashok - Delhi

Name: Ashok
Comments: Bhabhi is threatining to book all of the family under 498A ...

Their relatives are abusing us .. this is height ... it hurts..

they might file dowry case against us .. but believe me we never take dowry .. bhabhi's father etc is living in the rented premises & do not have much luxury of life... further bhabhi has 2 younger sisters & younger brother...

This is completely shame on judiciary ...

Mohammed - Jeddah - Saudi Arabia

Name: Mohammed
Comments: My name is Mohammed and i am an indian living in Saudi Arabia. I was born and brought up in Saudi Arabia. Please let me know if a wife commited suicide with any harassment or torture, can the inlaws file a case against the husband? The girl was living in Saudi Arabia for four months and hanged herself to a ceiling fan without any cause. Now the inlaws are putting wrong allegation on the husband that he killed her or murdered her although reports from Saudi Authorities mention that it was a suicidal attempt.

My question is that if any cases registered against the husband does he has to come to India or can he nominate someone in India to fight the case for me. My next question is that All the forensic, investigation & police report from Saudi Arabia , are they enough to prove the cause of the dead and lateron the case is released or the indian law will again start the whole investigation from the begining?

27 April, 2009

R.p.singh - vadodara/gujarat

Name: R.p.singh
Comments: my wife filed 498 in vadodara and after a weeek crpc 125 and DVA at Bharuch. We have two daughters living with her. I have received summon of crpc125 but not of DVA. They are demanding 15 kakhs. I am from U.p and living at vadodara alone. Please advice what to do.

vinod - bangalore

Name: vinod
Comments: Mine is a love cum arrange marriage. For 1st 6months we were good, and after that she started to hate me. In the month of may 27 2008 she went to her mothers place and never returned nor she gave me a call. When ever i tried to call she was ignoring me. Me and my parents had been to there house and tried to convince her, but she regerted to come. and there parents asked told they will send her in the month of january 2009, but they never sent her and in the month of feburary 2009 i spoke there parents and told them that my wedding annivesery is coming and please send my wife for that they told they need a divorce and what ever happened to think as a dream and forget. and in the month of march they have given a false complaint on me that i used to beat and my parents asked for dowry. So i had been to police station with my elders. And the police called there parents to come but they never returned and still the case is in police station. I am mentally harresed and iam not getting sleep. please guide me what to do. But iam not ready to give a divorce, i love her lot. Please give me suggestions.

25 April, 2009

Hemanth - Hyderabad, Andhrapradesh, India

Name: Hemanth
Comments: My wife has issued a notice from an advocate demanding to keep my parents separately, if not she is going to file a a case on us on dowry harassment.
I am the only kid for my parents and I am the only dependent for them. them. Please help me how can I safeguard myself if she goes for filing any case?

A Harish - Parbhani

Name: A Harish
Comments: My wife is suffering from mental disorder . They not disclosed the fact. Made fraud upon me . I file diorce case u/s13 (iii ) got divrce. Made appeal in district court by wife . She is not succeed. Trail court order is confirmed by the district court. I paid iterim maintenance Rs 188000 / in trial and Rs 22000/-in appeal. In appeal she has not received interim or not present in singal date or her advocate.
Now she has file for maintenance Under cr p c 125 .
She and her relatives cheated with me and made fraud upon me and my family members that sheis suffuring from mental disorder prior to marriage and same is noted in the judgement .Pl. advise me and provide case laws so that i may succeed in cr p c 125

23 April, 2009

ANURADHA - Allahabad

Name: ANURADHA
Comments: Hi,

I am victims Sister .
My brother & my Parents stay in village .My bro. didn't do any job/work.He stay in village with parents .Parent look after agriculture.Girl is aware of all the situation before wedding & girls parent only insisted for wedding.
They got Married on 20 nov. 2008 & wife is a lawyer.She hardly stayed 4 days in village after her wedding.2 days in dec & then she went to her parents house & came back on march for 2 days .one day she shocked my parents & brother by screaming & gathered all village person complaining that my parents/bro trying to abuse her & then call police that my parents/brother troubles her .Police said to my father that i know u didn't did anything but i have to take you to thana .but as its village thana nothing had happened there & inspector said to resolved it within themselves.Then she demanded for money & she left for her home.Then 1-2 times my parents tried for settlement but she didn't came. Now , after a month she filed 498a .She put everybodys name on FIR. My brother & parents are really scared as they are simple living person & dont know how to deal with such things .We have never stayed with her .Please advice me what to be done ..I will really appreciate .
Thanks
Anuradha

22 April, 2009

B.B.Lal - Ghazipur.UttarPradesh

Name: B.B.Lal
Comments: I had filled a case in Ghazipur U/S 9 Restitution of conjugal right dated 21oct2008.and I(alongwith family member)had filled anticipatory bail in Sasaram,Bihar

gulshan singh - bangalore

Name: gulshan singh
Comments: june 2008 she left bangalore with her parent
december 2008 ,i filed divorce from bangalore
summons came back on feb 16 /09 from allahabad
17 feb she filed sec.125 maintenance from teonthar (MP)
27 march my advocate come to know about 498A in teonthar
moved to Rewa (Distic Court) for anticipatory bail , court said since case is already registered so only bail will be given, so 24 april father & mother going for bail. advocate suggested i will go later

498A alligation
her father gave 5 lakh cash ,1.5 lakhs gold , 1 lakh silver etc as dowary and till date her father gave 2.5 lakh cash to me in installement (out of that 1 lakh cash given on november 21-08 for my sister wedding) and my mother/father beaten her for dowary from 2004.

About Me

my father: ret. flying office from Indian Air Force
Mother : House Wife
sister : MBA , settled in delhi
Myself : working in a Advertising Agency In bangalore from 1998

Its a false Case : she claims that 13 jan i beaten her at her village in MP , where as i was in bangalore. this is just an example.

Niranjan Goyal - Rajasthan

Name: Niranjan Goyal
Comments: My younger brother is not more with us.He met with an accident on 20-2-2009 and he was dead on the spot.My brother was having a 20 days child at the time of death.After death of my brother ,My brother father inlaw and mother in law who stayed our home 12 day they always abuse us.Presentlly there are demanding money from us They put one case which having act 468/467/471/406/120b >megistrate have given this case to police under 156/3 what shoud we do

Ram - Pune / Maharashtra

Name: Ram
Comments: I am a harrased victim of false DV. My wife was commiting adultery and have confessed. But instead now she has filed a false case of DV with baseless allegations sec 18 thru 23. Demanding a high maintenance of 50k per month.Also filed for interim maint and residence. Now I am also expecting 498a.
Police enquired about me and parents on 21.04.09. I have one 10 yr old daughter.

I have filed denial say against her DV case in JMFC Pune.
I have filed divorce as per sec 13,1(i) and (ia)adultery and cruelty.

I want the custody of my child also.
Dv case date is 2may.

21 April, 2009

hans raj - amritsar

Name: hans raj
Comments: actually i married with up girl in 2002, after one yr she has gone to up, & after one yr she filed a case a/g 498a, & after six months 125. i attend the 498a cases it is very difficult me to go to up from asr on every dt, so after two three months i had go there. but last month without we have receiving any summons they hv issued arrest warrants a/g 498a cases & next dt is 4th may. so i cannot go to attend my 125 case & 498a. please advice can i release on anticeptoy bail from amritsar becoz in up anticep. bail is not available. my lawyers are also not working properly. please sir advice me as soon as possible otherwise i have no other way to suicide

20 April, 2009

Vishal Indurkhya - Jabalpur - Madhya Pradesh

Name: Vishal Indurkhya
Comments: Resp. Sir,

I am sure this mail finds you in best of health & happiness.

Well, I am in Final Year of LL.B. program and for the Moot Court Case I have been assigned a case under Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 on Maintenance pendente lite and expenses of proceedings.

Sir, I would like to request you to kindly guide me on the same. I have to prepare the defense from the Husband's side.

Do we have any Leading Cases decided by the Apex Court / Supreme Court ( preferably ) or Any of the State High Courts wherein the Interim Maintenance application was rejected on the ground that the Applicant ( Wife ) is capable of earning and Non-Applicant ( Husband ) is unemployed.

Awaiting your guidance to proceed further,

Vishal Indurkhya
Consultant - Hospital Planning, Operations, Management, Public Health & Quality (NABH)
C/o Dr. Raja's Diagnostics
1104, Andherdeo
Jabalpur - 482 002
Madhya Pradesh
Phone - 0761 - 2652487
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Aman - Noida

Name: Aman
Comments: Traditional marriage in Banquet Hall at Delhi in simple manner organised.No dowry was demanded.Few gifts were given by her relatives,as there is no brother/father of bride.She spent quite comfortable life for 8 months. She was taken by her mother for one week in September,08 on the pretext of withdrawing money from her account.She refused to send her back on flimsy ground and now her relatives started demanding Rs 8 Lacs with stores.They also made threatening calls. After seeing their rough behaviour, in one of the meeting, we filed a case u/s 9 in Noida Court on 20 Dec,08.We also met Senior Police officer of hometown of bride.Bride alongwith her mother and Advocate went PS to file FIR in the first week of April,09, which they could not succeed. We are willing to return all her gifts and willing to pay 50% of Banquet hall expenses. But we are conveyed threatening messages,leading to mental depression to Bridegroom mother.Elder sister of bride had also commited suicide. When mother of girl is holding her at their own,without any valid reasons and now demanding 8 Lacs.We spent all available funds on Marriage.On one hand I will be divorcee,spent all the funds and getting regular threats to pay 8 Lacs or face consequences.

VIVEK SHELAR - BALAGHT(M.P)

Name: VIVEK SHELAR
Comments: DEAR SIR,
MY WIFE IN THIS TIME WITH HIS FATHER AND AFTER 3 MONTH OF MY MARRIAGE SHE HAS LEFT ME AND NOT COMING HOME .APART FROM HIS FATHER IS NOT READY TO GIVE ME DIVORCE THEN WHAT I SHOULD DO .PLEASE HELP ME..

ashish - mumbai

Name: ashish
Comments: too personal .

Saroja - Chennai

Name: Saroja
Comments: My brother’s wife has been not willing to go with my brother to Bangalore since their marriage. On 2 occasions due to her father’s compulsion she has been in Bangalore for 3-4weeks. I and my parents stay in Chennai who are also included in the complaint. She is from Coimbatore working prior to marriage and now has filed dowry and harassment case stating that we have taken all her jewels and harassed her which is false. We went to police station for enquiry but luckily since we knew many people in police we were not arrested. Police has told they will close the case but she is trying to file an FIR. In the meantime people are asking us to go for settlement. We also found little evidence from phone Bill that she is having an affair with her ex-boss. Pls advice how to proceed further.

18 April, 2009

Basant Kr. Agarwal - Jaipur

Name: Basant Kr. Agarwal
Comments: wife was go back to kota with her brother on 3.5.08. on the 4.5.08 his brother's was engagement at kota. But on 3.5.08 she was threned me that she will be trap me and my family in dowry case. I went to kota & tried that she come with me and we will live in another house on rent separately from my parents, but she said that if I come to kota, then she will live with me. I refused this, because my job at jaipur. And she and her family also refused to talking with child on phone. I had filed the case u/s 9 for restoring the relationship against wife. The case is pending in court till. Please advice me against threned given by wife to me.

16 April, 2009

bharat - shahjahanpur-u.p.

Name: bharat
Comments: how can we fight against falas 498a case.
is it possible that i submmit a complent case under dowery pro.act section 3(dowry giving a crime.)she summited a falas list of items in 125crpc case.

15 April, 2009

aniruddh nain - Agra

Name: aniruddh nain
Comments: I'am a air force officer presently working in coimbatore
case was filed against my brother in law abhishek singh , mother-in -law Suryalekah verma my wife ila singh and self. Its a totally false case me and my wife are staying in coimbatore and case was filed in agra. After submitting proof from my side that we were not available, self and my wife name was removed in chargesheet filed . but other names remain.

(a) Can i file a defamation suit?

(b) What action are available for my brother-in-law and mother-in -law?

varun - Noida

Name: varun
Comments: I am victim of getting abused by wife and her parents

1. I got married (arranged marriage) on 15th April in Haridwar. I am residing in Indrapuram Ghaziabad.
2. My wife keeps on leaving home again and again. This is fourth time in a year she has left home on very small issues. In one year she has spent 4-5 months at her mother’s place.
3. Her family mother and mausi(aunty) supports her in wrong deeds in all manner.
4. My wife has shown disregard to me and my family many times. Despite telling her to not misbehave she do not understand. I have provided all facilities to her ; Kamvali to cook food, Kapde dhone vali; Pick and drop her to her office daily; shown all kind and love affection and respect; Given
5. She has taken all stridhan (jewelry) etc with her; very often blame me for not giving her more jewelry and tries to insult me.
6. Her father mother came and started making allegation on me that I asked money from their daughter which is absolutely false.
7. She is working as a software engineer in computer firm; on asking to contribute some of money in household stuff she started blaming that I am asking money from her parents. I discussed this with my parents ; Prent suggested that I should never ever ask money from her. I am bit confused; this should be her duties to contribute in common spending. However on this point she again left home; I warned her not to go else relationship will end she ignored and went after insulting me.
a. She at times try to hurt me and show aggressiveness on me by scratching my face and hands.
8. In past conversation my mother in law told that she do not want to keep any relationship with my mother and father.
9. She has 3-4 times threatened me to give divorce also. I am fed up now and want to get rid of her if she do not change; My next concern is if she uses dowry case etc against me how can I safeguard my self.

14 April, 2009

mukul - ahmedabad gujarat

Name: mukul
Comments: she cheated, she had diseases, osteoporosis, pcod,skin bleeding diseases, may be they were contagious, she had earlier cash settled divorces, to subdue my anger on discovery of fraud of this magnitude ,i was offered to negotiate, 9apan table par beth te hey, to discuss give n take. but i did not wanted so with the help of corrupted police a ultra fiction story in the form of FIR was made that travelled from police station to courtand now a fakest of the
challan has occupied the sanctiest of place it deserves in the first class jmfc courts of our land and in the process ,me and my mother were arrested on 1-1-09 and till 7-1-09 and are running on each date to indore.looking forward to the indian authorities to grant me liedetector test,and cbi inquiry against the complainant and her allies that include false witnesses,police, possibly one MLA, member of judiciary who might have behaved irresponsibly for areason or they have astyle of functioning,which needs to be corrected, today it is concluded, that because indians can be jailed easily they are
gifted, but because satyamev jayte is joke in INDIA there is no,try to give CBI inquiryor liedetector test to INDIANS. Indians are abig joke, our present CRIMINAL justice system is aFARCE, ahuge joke on the innocent unsuspecting citizens, and the immediate beneficiaries of this system is complainant who wants revenge,police who can make money from boy,girl both sides. lawyers,JUDGES, who eventually get paid for doing atime pass on foolish procedures, that pass judgements on out of complaint/FIR issues and knowingly/unkowingly attend,serve the purpose of the corrupted police+ the bad intentioned
revenge taker called false complainant. and this who joke is
very costly to the accused,monetarily,physically,emotionally,mentally,socially,etcand immediate sufferer of fatal loss is the accused. INDIANS have replaced, substituted,gifted immediate injustice to the accused
as aimmediate reward/replacement/substitute for false, ficticious complaint of hers, truly article 21 of poor husbands, their relatives are raped in india 2009 in the name of providing justice to
the complainant. It is as if we handed law making and law and order
responsibility to the low IQed people who cannot differentiate
between lie,totallie,and utterly fake ficticious story,that are
propagated as FIRs ,so GOD and the whites we should look forward to because, STRANGER than fiction stories run and rule our courts
and there is no process to judge the complaints correctness, truly indians were not fit for independence/ constitution, because it is a mouth full for us poor creatures, we were fit to be slaves only.

13 April, 2009

Shweta - delhi

Name: Shweta
Comments: Hi I want to rejoin te group..

12 April, 2009

Manjunath - Bangalore

Name: Manjunath
Comments: Before putting a chargesheet, am negotiating for compromise that I will , make a separate house to live

11 April, 2009

Ajay - Ambala

Name: Ajay
Comments: Married on 11.12.2005. I am working as a Gazetted Officer in Central Govt. We were living peacefully but her parents continued to interefere in our day to day life. They didn't want her daughter to live with me for the reasons I never understood. Initially she opposed her parents but on 05.04.2006 left my house with her father and other relatives stating that she will return on 08.04.2006. I visited her house on 08.04.2006 but she was not there. When I contacted her she said she will return after 9-10 days. After that she filed a police complaint u/s 498A and 406. Thereafter, we never contacted. We got Anticipatory Bail form HC.

Now the case is in court. She will appear before the court on 20 April for prosecution evidence. I dont understand what to do. We are a very simple family and never did anything against her. Kindly advice what should I do.

Regards

Vijay Krishnan - Chennai

Name: Vijay Krishnan
Comments: I got married recently on 07th Dec 08 to a colleage in my organisation. I married her willingly as i loved her and got married to her with full permission from our parents. The marriage was done in Kerala as per the Hindu Marriage Act. Its registered and we were leading a happy life for 40 days. After 40 days she left the house for trivial reason of me speaking to my sisters who do not stay with me and that i am acting on my sisters and parents advise. They have sent me a lawyers notice with false inhuman allegations.I have also replied to the same denying all false allegations. They have given a rejoinder letter and said they she does not wish to join me in matrimony and have made some undue claims from us saying that we have taken some money in cash from them and they have given the dates also. I am in a helpless situation . I love my wife and I cannot live without her.. please help me. Her parents have influenced her and she is not understanding the same which resulted in all the false allegations.
my mobile number is (0)9840744310 I am a believer in truth.

10 April, 2009

Sib Shankar Sarkar - Numaligarh, Assam

Name: Sib Shankar Sarkar
Comments: She wants to implicate me for mental torture. After marriage she stayed with me for about 5 months.Few days after the marriage I felt she was more interested in my money. At the 10th day of my marriage she asked me whether I had made her nominee for all the financial investments and bank accounts I had.Also I felt she was more inclined to her parents than my relatives. She even refused to keep my mother for a single day. During her short stay with me she would make me recharge her Reliance mobile under special scheme (Rs.875) so that she can talk for hours with her mother.I very well know she would take all the tips her mother would give over phone. During these 5 months her parents stayed with me for more than one and half months. Then she goes home in Kolkata with her parents on the pretext of her pregnancy. She wanted her delivery to be done from expensive nursing home which I was not in favour of. She started saying she wont come back if I dont bear the expenses. When I refused to bear the expenses she started threatening me with 498A. Then out of the way till now I already paid more than 50000 for delivery purposes and child. She gave a birth to a male child who is now three months old. Although initially she was willing to come after three months of delivery now she finds some reason or the other for not coming and staying with me and extending dates every time I ask her to come. Recently she complained to Women Commission of Kolkata of mental torture. Even there she was not entertained. She also lodged a GD with police station near her area of stay in Kolkata. Now there is every chance that she would try 498A case. For your infrmation I want to say that I did not take single penny from her. Infact she took all the gold gifts she received from us. Please advice in this situation what I should do.

09 April, 2009

jayadev kommineni - Hyderabvad

Name: jayadev kommineni
Comments: i married a girl from community its a love marriage. marriage happend at Vijaywada temple. got registered at registrar of marriages. three days she lived along with my parents. later went to office and not returned to home, went to mother place when i enquired she said she will only when i take separate home for her which i did and she didnt stayed with me during that time. she used to black mail me staying at her mothers place. during pregnancy she left to her mother in the year 2007 june. afterwhich she is not coming to stay with me. her father depends on her job. during pregnancy she resigned the job for a allegation against her in the office for extra marital affair which was made by her collegaue. till date she does not turned up and her father is making a false allegations against me with my relatives and freinds. he met TV5 media for threatning me. They called me and i went to their place and they enquired about at my work place and ex work place and in my colony. they found that the girl is making false allegations and advised me not meet them. in this senario her father and brother is threatning me that they will not leave me.

07 April, 2009

debasish - Assam

Name: debasish
Comments: dear friends,

I am a government servant earning salary around Rs. 25000 p.m and married a girl after having an affair of nine years. She is also a service holder in a public corporation earning a salary of Rs.10000 p.m and has the benefit of GPF and pension. Before marriage I specifically told her to leave her job. She agreed to the proposal but sought one month time to leave the job. She has given her consent in writing.
I gave her a sum of Rs.1,80,000 at her request just before marriage. The amount was paid through A/C payee cheques. Out of this she invested Rs.80000 in fixed deposit in her own name before marriage. But just after marriage she denied to leave the job. Her father also warned me with abusive words regarding leaving of job and stoped all sorts of communication.
She started non-co-operation in the house with me but was very much cordial to my parents. She also portrayed a bad image of mine to her own relatives. She started lying and also made negative remarks to my parents against me. she started to give false statements, tempering truth and developed an adamant attitude.
One day she left the house with five months child and leaving separately for last one year in her relative’s house. She spent only 14 months with me after marriage. Now she widely disseminated the news of physical and mental torture by her husband only among her relatives, office colleagues and also in her micro society. She has shown some marks in her fingers and legs also. Regarding torture she has one medical report also. After leaving my house she has taken one month leave from her office on medical ground.
My parents and other relatives went to her place several times for negotiation but they were not interested to discuss anything. But they also did not protect them see my little child. They used to tell that one day she may go. Now she is not mentally prepared and they can’t force her. They also did not talk about divorce. They did not file any police case or court case in last one year. They also did not come to enquire the matter or made any phone call for reconciliation. I sent ten registered letters for coming home back and inform me about the condition of my child and allow me to visit her. But she did not give any reply. I sent money order three times of Rs. 2000 each but she returned the money. I sent one account payee cheque of Rs.20,000 which she did not encash.
I could see my own child only once in last one year but my wife did not come and talk to me.

1. How can be saved from 498A and other related act and sections?
2. What is the time duration for filing such case of physical and mental torture?
3. If I file a divorce case, then can she files 498A and other related act and sections.
5. Should my parents and other relatives go there again just to see their grand daughter and keep touch with them?
6. Whether I should inform any authority that she has left the house with my child and staying separately for one year?
7. How can we make them agree to seat in a discussion on this issue?
8. Should I continue to send letters and money orders every month?
9. What is the plus and minus points in my case?

05 April, 2009

Prit Pal Singh - Ambala Cantt, Haryana

Name: Prit Pal Singh
Comments: I work in dubai, I was tortured mentally by my wife & her mother. They every time abuse my mother, father, sister & brother when we go to their house. Her father is Session judge in Moga,Punjab. I came to india for holiday before coming my wife fought with me & came to her parents house months ago. They took me & my parents, & sister. My brother was not at home at that time, so he was not arrested. kindely help me.

04 April, 2009

Manoj Kumar - pune

Name: Manoj Kumar
Comments: got married on april 2008, since then we are residing in metrimonial house in pune. My parents as well her parents stay in delhi. She has superiority complex and hate all my villager relatives. she doesnt expect my parents to stay with me in pune. since last couple of months because of some financial crunch I was no able to afford very lavish life style and she got irritated because of that also. february 2009 she went to delhi and since then she has been threatening me on phone about fake 498A case and making my and my parents life hell. I am under immence mental stress and dont know what to do. It really hurts to sufer like this just because of extremely biased and illogial indian constitution about such issues...I am seeking for urgent help.
thanx-

shanavas - kerala

Name: shanavas
Comments: 498/A ipc was filed aganist me before JFMC inthe year 2002.The court given me bail and after the trial the court released me(not guilty).But my wife gone to appeal before high court of kerala, unfortunately the court taken and sent notice to me. now this case pending.After my marriage we are living wife house.But in her case she pointed out that she livied with husband in husbands house.She fabricately pointed that her father deposited Rs two laks in my bank NRE account.In NRE a/c how they can deposit indian money.OUR FOOOLISH JUDICIERY belived this fraud statement. How i can escape?

03 April, 2009

dhirajbhola - mumbai

Name: dhirajbhola
Comments: no of cases 498a ipc 125 ,domastic violence on me an my family

my mom has a back problem we have put a stay on 498 a and in 125 interm relive has been order by the judge of rs 2100 for my wife i have put the case for restitution of conjugal right in the family court of mumbai because of this case my job is effected i need to go to uttrakhand for every date and i dont know what to do i have been to my wife s place for compromise but thy are demanding mony which is not possible for me to give and me and my parent never asked for dowary we are against dowary it is a false case on me and my family

02 April, 2009

Kripa Shankar Ojha - Guwahati

Name: Kripa Shankar Ojha
Comments: After 7 or 8 years of marriage my wife who is illetrate made a case of 498a at ARA Civil Court, Bihar. But afer few dates she with her father gave in written in court that we want to withdraw the case. However my wife is living with me and after that we have a son (7 years now). But case is steel registered and time to time we have to attend the case. Now the situation is I am at Guwahati and case is Ara. and Bail has been broken. Now again I have to attend the court. I want some advice how we may come out from this problem ?

MS - Faridabad

Name: MS
Comments: FIR registered under 498a,323,316 IPC and 3/4 DPA.
After negotiating a compromise was done between both the parties on terms living separate from parents.
I need advice that how to proceed further in future.
What steps can I take in order to safeguard my family and myself so that this may not happen again.
Also, Can anyone tell me where can i make a complaint against an Additional District Government Counsel.

Rajeev - Delhi

Name: Rajeev
Comments: Sir,
I am afraid that me and my Family will be held under false 498A .My wife want’s me get seperated from my OLD parents.Feb2009 onwards She is living with her parental house and she dont want to come back though my family have requested her to comback but she never did that and use to fight with me on each and every thing.She is been brain washed by her mother and aunty for misbehaving with me.They all abuse me and my family it has been a mental touture for us as we are living under threat that they will file a false case against me and my parents.Which only resulted in iron hand cuffing like a herded criminal and lying in illegal custody. I had been caught by the police on 29th Jan 2009, and kept for two days in police lockup and six day in Tihar jail and released on bail. She filed false FIR’s and filed under section 498A, 406,506,323 & 34 IPC against me & my family members (my patents, 2 brothers and 1 bhabhi).we all got the bail from the Court of Judicial Magistrate at delhi on Feb,2009. Now, no one here to help me from this day to day harassment, lost couple of good jobs.
Please advice me
thanks & Regards
Rajeev Sharma

01 April, 2009

rajni sharma - jaipur

Name: rajni sharma
Comments: my self rajni sharma, this case is related wid my younger brother ravi sharma/ govt of rajasthan. my brother is a advocate member of bar councel of kotputli. my bhabi committed suside on 11 sep 07. me & my sis was in jaipur at dat time & my second younger brother was in sangrur dist.(punjab)he is a bems doctor. my father was also in punjab posted in dhnola in f.c.i. as ag2.
28 sep ko hm sbhi rakhi pr ghar aae. hmara ghar kotputli dist. jaipur me ha. rakhi bandh kr me or meri chhoti behan jaipur vapis aa gae or bhabi g apne pehar chli gae. vo vhan say kareeb 5 ya 6 din baad vapis aae. meri mom ghar pr hi thi kunki 6th of sep ka meri bhabi ka burday tha. uske baad ma apne peehar or hmse milenay aae bhabi g nay us 11 sep ko suside kr lea. aaj tk hum me se kisi ko yah nhi pta ke unhone essa ku kea? humney unhay 11 sep ko 8am pr bdm hospital kotputli me admit kra dea tha. vhan say unhey jaipur sms raffer kr dea jha pr kreeb 11 bje unhoney dm toor dea. unke ghar valo ko inform subh he kr dea gya tha pr koe nhi aaea jb ke agar behroor se kotputli ke duri by bus bhi aadhey ghante ke nhi h. saath he abhi tk yah nhi pta ke hospital pahunchte he vhan police kesay aa gae. bhi khud us wqt apne senor ke paas tha. es say pehley unhone koe shekyat nhe ke. bhabi kepeehar walo ne hum pr doury 498a , 304 b ka case kea hua h> case me hmari family ke 6 members ko involv kea hua tha. jisme say police inquary me meray papa, chotte bhae or bhan ko nekal dea gya. meri mumma ke jmannat kreeb 7 mhenay baad hue or bhi abhi tk jail me ha. meray inquary 178 k aadheen abhi panding h. unki or saysirf teen gvah baki h jisme bhabhi ke chacha ramkishan jisnay case kea h ldki ka bhai or co baki h jo ke 6 april ko aa jaengay. me pehlay ak reporter thi kae prograns ke anchor be hu.
plz help us agar esa chlta rha to hum sb k paas ak he rsta bchega. bhabi ke father class 4 employ h jb ke dono bhae abhi padh rhe thay. bhabi je ko hmnay shadi ke baad 12th regular govt. school say krvae thi.
regards
rajni sharma
d/o sh madan lal sharma
near tv tower , madhav veehar kotputli
dist jaipur
date 1april 09