sanjiv sohal - amritsar

Name: sanjiv sohal
Comments: WE GOT MARRIED ON 18/04/08. WE HAVE NOT TAKEN A SINGLE ITEM IN DOWRY(NO SHAGUN/ NOCASH/NOGIFTS)WHICH CAN BE DOCUMENTED IN THE VIDEO. IN HONNYMOON TRIP SHE STARTED MAKING DEMANDS AND ENQUIRING ABOUT MY FAMILYS WEALTH , WHICH I REFUSED TO DIVULDE.MY WIFE FROM THE DAY ONE DID NOT WANT TO HAVE PHYSICAL RELATION WITH ME. I THOUGHT MAY BE THERE IS SOME ADJUSTMENT PROBLEM BECAUSE WE HAD SHORT TIME OF ENGAGEMENT TIME BEFORE MARRIGE.SHE STAYED 18/04/2008 TO08/10/2008. AS MEMBERS OF FAMILY KNEW THAT THERE WAS NO SEXUALCONTACT WITH ME,UNDER THE PRESURE SHE MADE.IN THE MEANTINE SHE HAD DIVULGED TO ME THAT SHE HAVE HAD PHYSICAL RELATION WITH ONE OF HER RELATIVE IN THE PASTS AND STILL WANTS TO CONTINUE WITH IT. I TOLD HER TO FORGET ABOUT HER PAST AND LIVE A NEW LIFE BUT IT FELL TO HER DEAF EAR.SHE TOLD ME THAT I HAD ONLY MARRIED TO U UNDER PRESSURE AND MONEY .AS U KNOW THAT I HAVE A RELATION I DONT WANT TO HAVE FAST (KARVACHAUTH WARTH) IN YOUR NAME AS I HAD BEEN 4 THE LAST3-4 YEARS KEEPING THE FAST IN HIS NAME.AS WE GOT THE CONFORMATION OF HER PREGNANCY SHE STARTED CREATING MORE TROUBLE.THE SAME DAY SHE TOLD ME THAT I DONT WANT TO CONTINUE WITH THIS PREGNANCY.SHE ALSO TOLD MY ELDER BROTHERS WIFE THAT I HAVE TOLD MY RELATIVES THAT MY IN LAWS ARE MISBEHAVING WITH ME AND THEY WILL COME AND THRASH THEM ALL.AND ON 8/10/08 THIS HAPPENED ,ALL OF A SUDDEN IN THE MORNING AFTER HAVING BATH WIHOUT TELLING ELDERS AND ME SHE WENT AWAY TO HER PARENTS HOUSE TAKING WITH HER ALL THE STRIDHAN(CASH(SHAGUN)GOLD THAT WE HAD GIVEN/GOLD THAT SHE HAD BROUGHT AND HER CLOTHS). IN THE EVENING HER RELATIVES HAD COME TO OUR SHOP TO THRASH US.BUT AFTER HEARING THE TRUTH THEY REALISED THAT THEIR KIN IS ON THE WRONG SIDE.THEY SCOLDED HER AND TOLD NOT TO MISGUIDE IN THE FUTURE.WE HAD INFORMED THAY SHE HAD TAKEN ALL THE VALUEABLE WITH HER.HER RELATIVES ASSURED US THAT THE WILL RETURN THAT IN THE MORNING WHICH NEVER HAPPENED .A DAY AFTER THAT HER MOTHER CAME AND TOOK MY WIFE SAYING THAT AS SHE IS PREGNANT & AND BEEN SCOLDED 4 THE MISTAKE SHE HAD MADE, I WILL TAKE CARE FOR 2-3 DAYS AND SEND BACK TO U.4M 8/10/08 TILL 16/12/08 MY FATHER HIMSELF AND THROUGH RELATIVES HAD GONE 5 TIMES TO BRING MY WIFE BACK BUT SHE HAD NOT COME.ON 16/12/08 WE CAME TO KNOW THAT SHE HAD ABORTED THE CHILD. ON 23/12/08 SHE HAD FILLED A POLICE COMPLAINT ON DOWRY AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ACT. THE INQUIRY COULD NOT BE COMPLETED AS THERE WERE ELECTION IN THE STATE , THE SEAT OF INQUIRY OFFICER FELT VACANT. IN THE END WE ARE NO WHERE TILL DATE. PLEASE GIVE US PROPER ADVICE WHAT ACTION TO TAKE FURTHER.