Amitabh Srivastava - Delhi
Name: Amitabh Srivastava
Comments: Dear Sir,
Our's was a love marriage my parents were not agreed to this marriage and never participated. From the day one we lived seperately in a rented house. My inlaws kept on insisting me to persuade my parents and to live with them. My wife had a habbit of going to her parental house regularly for 5-6 days leaving me alone. I was working as a Sr. Executive in a private company and had a limited income although my parents have a 3 storied house and my father is a retd. section officer from delhi university.
My case is in CAW Cell my wife and inlaws framed the charges of 498A upon my Father, Mother and Unmarried younger sister which are all base less as they have never given any dowry as it was a love marriage and me and my wife never lived in my parental house.
My wife's brother beaten me with his friends, when I reached AIIMS to get the MLC done along with my wife, she falsely had her MLC done along with me to save her brother and reported the local police station next day that I have beaten her. When I reached to the local police station next morning they refused to take my application agaist her brother and they have also not taken any action on my MLC or my wife's MLC as both came normal but her lawyer father is making it a tool and producing it as a proof of cruelity.
Since then her father is bothering me and my parents and forcing them to take me and my wife to their home or otherwise he will file a FIR against the under 498 A. But my parents are not getting agree to it as all their charges are false and concocted. They are not feeling safe to bring her to their home and thinking that this could be a trap.
My wife filed a case under Domestic violence in march 2008 since then she is getting a maintenance of Rs. 4000 per month from me. but I have lost my job 3 months back as I was not able to concentrate on it properly due to the case hearings in court and hearings in CAW Cell and not able to pay the maintenance from past three months. Now my wife has already given a application to lodge an FIR under 498A in CAW cell. Her father is black - mailing me to pay 5 lacs or else they will send my parents behind the bars.
They are not producing any photographs or marriage CD which they have because any of my parents or relatives not participated in the marriage.
After marriage I came to know that my wife's elder sister also had a divorce and now recently married again. From her first marriage her father got a huge money in settlement.
Kindly advice me on above as I am very frustrated and tensed, don't know what to do next.
1 comments:
Tips to save marriage relationship are as follows. If your marriage is in crisis, don’t show your partner that you’re panicking. Showing desperation will make them feel suffocated and will push him or her even further away. Never beg or plead with your partner to get them to return. You’ll then feel humiliated when they don’t respond to your pleas and feel your self esteem drop. If they want space, give them space. Spend time doing those things that make you feel strong and good about yourself. If your partner is aggressive towards you, do not lash out in return. Be calm and in control and if you portray this attitude, you will begin to feel this attitude. Finally and most importantly, you have to realize that you have a choice. Either reacts to the situation you’re in or change your behavior! Don’t focus on trying to change your partner’s behavior but focus on changing yours.
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