K MAHEH BABU - Chennai

Name: K MAHEH BABU
Comments: She left my company on 20-04-2005, surprisingly without any notice to me. By the time she left the house, she was carrying 6th month of pregnancy and the custom in all the Hindu families is that no pregnant woman should leave the husband and join her parent's house in any even month of carrying pregnancy. Immediately after she left me in such a surprising manner, I wrote her a letter by register post where as I wrote to her parents' address at Salem. It showed her attitude that she did not care the health while she was a pregnant. I made it very much clear in my letter to her, how I suffered mental agony on her attitude and I requested her to keep on writing letters to me about her health as she was a pregnant., as I was very much concerned about her health and the health of the baby. She did not care to give a reply. It was a sin on her part to leave me without information. She should at least write me a letter expressing sorry for her attitude and even after the receipt of a letter from me, she did not bother to give a reply. This attitude of her showed very clearly, how cruel she is and how best she was as my wife.
As there was no reply to my letter, I wrote her another letter by R.P. She received the letter not in your parents' town but at some other village. Then she might be in 7th month of pregnancy if there was no abortion. I made a mention in that letter that she did not give a reply to my previous letter. I have also informed her in the said letter that some police people were enquiring my particulars and I also expressed a doubt that the said police could not come to me without her knowledge. I was very much worrying about her health and expressed the same in the letter. I again called her for giving a reply to me and to keep in touch with me, about her health and the medicines she was taking, by way of letters. In spite of the said letter also she did not respond to give any reply.
Again I wrote her a letter by RP. As there was no reply for this letter also, I gave her a telegram on 26-06-2005 enquiring her why she was not informing me about your health and why she was not giving reply to any of my letters. This telegram was also not answered by her. Her attitude in this connection was very much cruel against me.
In such a situation, knowing fully well about the attitude of her parents, with an intention to see her directly and to know her health in the late pregnancy period, I went directly to her parents' house in the middle of July 2005 and I was abused with unparliamentary language, outside the house of her parents and I was assaulted by her father and his supporters who were not known to me. All my efforts to enter in to the house proved futile. They did not even heed my request to call her at least out side the house and to allow me to talk to her. I don't think that she did not know the said incident. Taking note of all these things and after noticing her unbearable attitude, I was forced not to think of anything about her.
Very long time after I stopped to think about her, again it was a surprise that she wrote a letter during Apr 2006. Her letter was full of serious allegations against me. The said allegations against me and against my father reveals the fact that she is not in a habit of telling a truth in her life. I questioned her why in the said lengthy letter of her also, she did not try to explain why she did not answer any of my letters and why she did not write me any letter for such a long time after she left my company without any notice to me? Along with serious false allegations against me she have also attributed some stories in her letter that she have left her jewel, sari etc. with me. The letter seems to be a legal letter from her and not a real letter from her mind with a real intention of coming to live with me. For a technical reason she had given an order or a direction to me in the letter to come to her house to take her along with me. She might have possessed with an idea to beat me in her house if I went to her house. If she wanted to come to live with me the letter must be in a separate shape. She might have explained in the letter why she did not write any letter to me in spite of number of letters from me; she might have felt sorry for her father's attitude when I went to her parents house in the month of July 2005; she might have felt sorry for the reason that herself and her parents have asked a Mahila Sangam people to issue a notice to me while she was staying with me; she might have expressed sorry for sending some police constables after she left me without notice.
To my surprise even prior to the receipt of her letter, my officer also received a letter from her and the said letter is also filled with full of lies and some new allegations which were not mentioned in the letter written to me. Is it an effort from her to join me or is it an effort from her to do some thing more harmful against me. Is it the way she wanted me to take her for living together?
At that juncture I recollected important things; while shewas carrying fourth month pregnancy, her father along with some others came to our house. They did not ask me to send her along with them but they gave me an order that they were taking her along with them. I tried to tell them that it was not good and auspicious to take her to their house in the fourth month of pregnancy. Then they shouted me adding that they would put me in troubles if I did not simply fallow them. Then I left the matter to her and she also stood to the position that it was not good to leave to her parents' house in the fourth month of pregnancy.
In the letter written to me, she had attributed a false allegation against me or against my parents that we tried for abortion of her pregnancy. The medical examinations reveal the true picture. She tried her best to convince me for allowing her for abortion saying that her health was not good. To take an advice from the doctors, I took her to Doctor for examining her and her fear of keeping the pregnancy and her intention of abortion were told to the doctors. The doctor has examined her and after seeing all the reports like ultra sound scanning etc. the doctor has advised her that there was nothing to fear and that there would be a normal delivery. Again during Mar 2005, the same doctor has examined her and she again said that there was nothing to worry. Even at that juncture she tried to put me in pressure that her health was not normal and she wanted to have abortion. Within a few days after she was examined by the doctor on second occasion and as her request for abortion was not accepted, a Mahila Sangam notice came to me and she expressed her innocence that she was not aware of the said notice. In these circumstances, she left my company from Chennai to her parents’ house with a secret planning that too in the sixth month of pregnancy. Immediately after she left my company, without taking care that any pregnant woman would take, she left her parents house also and she have changed her place of residence to so many places. My efforts to see her were forcibly obstructed. Except on seeing the letter dated xx Apr 2006 from her I was not informed the birth of the child. All these things are raising a doubt in my mind that she might have gone to her parents' house without any notice to me and without caring that she should not go to your parents' house in the sixth month of pregnancy only with an intention to have abortion/ termination of her pregnancy. For the said reason only she might have left her parents house to see that the known people in her residential area should not know her attempts of abortion. Keeping silence for about 9 months after the alleged delivery might also be for a preparation to have created a child with her. It might be the reason that I was forcefully obstructed to enter in to her parents' house so that I could not see her. This is only a doubt raised in my mind on seeing her attitude and on seeing her way of writing a letter and on seeing her attempt in writing a letter to my officer with all false allegations.
Under these circumstances I was forced to ask her to explain me all about my doubts and about her actual behaviour of leaving me and leaving her parents house, not responding to write letters to me, assaulting me to see that I should not enter into her parents house to see her etc. and also her behaviour of not informing me for about 9 months about the delivery and her behaviour of writing a letter to my officer, without waiting to see my reaction on seeing her letter.
I request her through my letter xx June 2006, to respond to answer these questions immediately.
There after I letter dated 05 Dec 2006, from All Women Police Station, Sooramangalam, Salem City., Which was received by me on 14th Dec 2006.
Based on that we got AB from High Court of Madras on 22 Dec 2006. we submitted surities at Salem Court within the stipulated period.
The FIR U/S 498a and 506 (II) registered on 03 Jan 2007.
Then she filed a maintenance case under Cr Pc 125 at Salem Family court on 28 Mar 2007.
After waiting for a long time I filed a divorce pitetion in the family court Chennai which was subsequently transfered to Salem.
And the cases are pending before courts.

Recently I have received threatening calls telephonically from unknown No. that they are police men and an arrest warrent has been issued by the court.

Is it possible to issue an arrest warrent, that after a lapse of about 2 and a half years without any notices either from court/ police or without even any inquary/ invetigation/ charge sheet from police.

Kindly advice/ help me in this matter.

with regards
K Mahesh babu.