Name: ravi
Comments: i was working in guld when i meet my ex on shadi.com , and within a moth i decided to marry her ,(more details not here)I QUIT JOB ON 22ND FEB 2005 AND CAME TO BANGALORE AND JOINED MARCH AND ONE MONTH LATER AFTER RENTING HOME I BROUGHT HER to bangalore AND TILL LAST SHE WAS STAYING WITH ME IN BANGALORE.WE USED TO STAY ALONE FAR FROM MY FAMILY SO THAT THEY SHOULD NOT BE PUT IN ANY PROBLEM ,AS HER PARENTS USED TO TELL THAT THEY WILL PUT MY OLD PARENTS IN JAIL
They came to know that I don't have much strong proofs against her and there is no body to support as one of my brother is mentally ill and parents are very old and senior citizen ,they started threatening that they will spoil my career and will eliminate my family and my sisters daughters can never be married .
She WARNED ME THAT IF I BRING MY OLD PARENTS AND BROTHER TO BANGALORE HOME , SHE WILL GO AWAY TO HER HOME AND WILL NOT COME , I COMPROMISED EVEN ON THIS MATTER AND DECIDED TO BE AWAY FROM MY OLD PARENTS
HE USED TO SAY THAT HE HAS STUDIED LAW AND HIS FATHER WAS INSPECTORS AND HE KNOWS EACH AND EVERY ONE IN COURT AND IN POLICE AND IF HE WANTS HE WILL PUT ME BEHIND BARS AS HE IS READY WITH PAPERS .
ONE DAY HER WHOLE FAMILY CAME TO BANGALORE AND STARTED QUERRELING WITH ME SAYING THAT I AM NOT GIVING HER MONEY TO SPEND ,I WAS FORCED OUT TO SLEEP AT OTHER PLACE ,WHEN I GAVE THEM 2 LAKH RUPPES THEN THEY WENT BACK AND WARNED ME THAT I SHOULD STAY IN MY LIMITS ,HE IS HAVING SO MUCH INFLUENCE THAT HE WILL ELIMINATE ME
Every time she gets a phone call from her family her behaviors changes and he fights with me ,she always ask money ,which I used to give her ,
But looking at my daughter I forgets every thing and used to be happy by forgetting all these things
On end of year 2006 ,I planned to buy land in Bangalore so that we can build house here and I also requested my father to buy a land here so that I have more financial security and we purchased the land in BANGALORE where I did my schooling ,for this I took money from my friends and my sisters
ONE DAY SHE TOLD ME THAT HER BROTHER WANTED TO GO TO USA FOR HIGHER STUDIES AND HE IS IN NEED OF 5 LAKHS MONEY ,I TOLD HER THAT IT IS NOT POSSIBLE FOR ME AS I ALREADY HAVE TAKEN PLOT HERE IN BANGALORE AND THAT PLOT IS A REVENUE LAND AND I MUST START SOME CONSTRUCTION THERE ELSE SOME ONE ELSE CAN OCCUPY IT .SHE INSISTED ME AGAIN AND AGAIN BUT I REFUSED ,THEN SHE COOLY SAID THAT THINK OF CONSEQUENCES ,SHE TOLD ME TO SELL ONE OF THE PLOTS AND PAY TO HER
MEAN WHILE I WENT FOR THE project work AT SHANGAI IN CHINA ,ONE DAY SHE CALLED THAT SHE IS NOT WELL ,AND ASKED ME TO COME SO I DIDN'T NOT EXTEND MY VISA AND TALKED TO MY COMPANY AND THEY AFREED FOR A WEEK DAY LEAVE FOR ME ,I CAME TO BANGALORE ,I CAME TO KNOW THAT HER MOTHER HAS COME TO TAKE CARE OF AND SHE HAS NOT TOLD ABOUT ANYTHING TO NEIGHBOURS ,HER MOTHER LEFT TWO DAYS BEFORE I CAME .
I WENT BACK TO SHANGHAI TO COMPLETE MY WORK ,SHE CALLED ME THAT PLEASE GIVE HER BROTHER 5 LAKH MONEY FROM PROJECT WORK MONEY ,I TOLD HER THAT I DON'T GET MORE MONEY EVEN IF I AM OUTSIDE INDIA ,IT IS NOT LIKE SAUDI WHERE I WAS A PERMANENT EMPLOYEE ,BUT HERE IN SHANGAHI I AM ON TEMP PLACEMENT.SHE THEM TOLD THAT SHE DOESN'T KNOW AND SHE KNOW HOW TO GET BACK THE MONEY FROM ME ,
WHEN I CAME BACK TO INDIA I WAS SHCOKED TO KNOW THAT SHE HAS ALREADY LEFT HOUSE ONE WEEK BEFORE WHEN I CAME TO INDIA .MEAN WHILE I HAD DIFFERENT PROJECT WHICH WAS AT HISAR AND I WENT THERE ON 15TH OCTOBER .
I WENT TO ALWAR TO TAKE HER TO THE SITE SO THAT WE CAN STAY TOGETHER AFTER A LONG GAP ,BUT HER MOTHER TOLD ME THAT SHE IS NOT THERE AND SHE IS VERY SERIOUS AND ADMITTED TO DELHI ,,THEN I ASKED HER WEHRE IN DELHI ,BUT SHE REFUSED ,I STAYED NIGHT IN HER YOUNGER UNCLE HOME AT FARM HOUSE ,THEY TREATED ME NICELY BUT IN MORNING HER FATHER CALLED ME TO GO TO UP AND HE WILL COME THERE ,HER DAUGHTER IS ON DEATH BED AND HE WILL TEACH A LESSON TO MY PARENTS AND ME HE ,ALSO MY FATER CALLED AND AND SHOUTED AT ME SAYING THAT WHAT I DID ?I WENT HOPE BUT HER FATHER DIDN'T CAME ,
THEN I CAME BACK TO SITE ,HE USED TO CALL MY FATHER THAT NOW HE WILL NEVER COME TO UP RATHER HE WILL MAKE WHOLE MY FAMILY TO COME TO ALWAR AND SPOIL OUR LIFE ,I THOUGHT THERE IS SOME THING WRONG
I CAME TO BANGALALORE ON 10 NOVEMBER 2007 AND WAS SHOCKED TO SEE MY HOUSE DOOR NOT LOCKED AND ALL THINGHS SPREAD ,MANY THINGS MISSING ,I WAS IN DEEP STATED OF SHOCK AS NOT KNOWING WHAT IS HAPPENING ,AND WHAT TO DO .I CALLED HER AND ASKED WHAT HAPPENED AND WHY SHE HAS TAKEN ALL MY THINGS ..SHE TOLD ME I WARNED YOU BEFORE AS TO GIVE MY BROTHER 5 LAKHS ,NOW SHE HAS NOT ONLY TAKEN FEW THINGS BUT ALSO SHE WILL TAKE AWAY MY LIFE ,SHE WILL ELIMINATE ME ,THEY HAVE DONE ALL THE PREPERATION AND WORK .
I ASKED MY NEIGHBOURS AS WHEN SHE CAME HERE AGAIN AND I WAS SOCKED TO KNOW FROM THEM THAT SHE ALONG WITH SOME MORE PEOPLE CAME SOME WHERE ON 21 OCTOBER AND TOOK ALWAYS BAGS ,SHE JUST CAME FOR 30MINUTES ,NEXT DAY I WENT TO VIDYA RANYAPURA POLICE STATION IN MORNING AND WAS SITTING WHOLE DAY ,THEY DIDN'T LODGE THE FIR SAYING THAT IT IS FAMILY MATTER AND SHE HAS ALL RIGHTS TO USE ANY OF MY ARTICLES OR THINGS .
THEN I WENT TO HER HOME AS WHAT IS WRONG, UNAWARE OF THEIR ILL CONCEPRERACY WHICH THEY WERE PLANNING BEFORE MY MARRIGE ITSELF.THEIR SOLE AIM IS TO TAKE MONEY WHICH I NEVER UNDERSTOOD ,UNLESS LAST.TILL THE END I TRIED MY LEVEL BEST TO SAVE THIS MARRIGE
THE MOMENT I WENT TO HER HOME HER FATHER SAID THAT HE WILL BLOW ME INTO PIECES NOW ,AND THEY CALLED POLICE AND THEY PUT ME IN POLICE STATION JAIL ,THAT WAS THE WORST PART I HAD IN MY LIFE .I WAS NOT ALLOWED TO CALL ANY ONE AND NO ONE KNEW WHERE I AM ..AFTER THREE DAYS POLICE ALLOWED TO CALL AND THEN I CALLED MY FRIEND.
I WAS KEPT IN POLICE CUSTODY FOR 7 DAYS AND EVERY HOUR HER FAMILY USED TO COME AND TORCHURE ME SAYING EVERY THING POSSIBLE ON THIS WORD, THIS CAN BE IMAGINED BY ANY ONE WHO IS KEPT IN POLICE CUSTODY.
HER FATHER IN LAST SAID THAT THIS IS START OF MY MISERY …
1. HE WILL TAKE AWAY MY FULL SALARY BY PUTTING THE COURT CASE ,
2. HE WILL FORCE ME TO LEAVE MY JOB BY PUTTING COURT DATE EVERY MONTH
3. HE WILL SEAL ALL MY PARENTS AND MY PROPERTY
4. HER BROTHER USED TO THREATNED ME THAT HE WILL NOT RETURN MY MONEY WHICH HE HAS TAKEN ,INSTEAD HE WILL FLY TO USA AND FROM THERE HE WILL TEACH ME A LESSON.
HER FATHER HAS TAKEN OATH THAT IF HE IS REAL SON OF HIS FATHER HE WILL MAKE ME BEG IN ALWAR
my parents are 70+ and were staying alone in village , they have to go to court coz of me , i m depressed ,just feel like killing my ex and all those who torchured and then kill myself
THEY DID THIS AS A PRE PLANNED WAY TILL LAST ,TILL LAST I WANTED TO SAVE MY FAMILY LIFE ELSE I WOULD HAVE NOT GONE THERE AND NOT HARRASED IN POLICE CUSTODY FOR 8 DAYS .
I AM DEEP STATE OF DEPRESSING AS DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO AND HOW TO SAVE MY OLD PARENTS WHO ARE SUFFERING JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE MY PARENTS
· TOTAL MONEY WHICH HER BROTHER HAS TAKEN FROM ME IS Saudi riyal 5000/= + 5LAKHS rupees
· TOTAL GOLD JEWELERY WHICH SHE WAS HAVING IN HER CUSTODY WAS ABOUT 700GRAMS WHICH I BROUGHT FROM SAUDI AND PURCHASED HERE.(this include 2 pieces of 100grams gold biscuits)
SHE AND HER FAMILY STOLEN ALL MY MONEY , DOCUMENTS AND ALL THE ARTICLES , SOME OF THE STOLEN DOCUMENTS THEY ARE PRODUCING IN THE ALWAR COURT
THEY TOOK ALL MY SALARY SLIP WHICH I KEPT IN BAG AT HOME , THEY PUT ALL MY SALARY SLIP IN FRONT OF COURT
THEY TOOK ALL MY LAND SALE DEED PAPERS AND WROTE ITS ALL DETAILS IN CASE TO FREEZE THAT PROPERTY IN BANGALORE
MY YOUNGER BROTHER WHO IS MENTALLY RETARDED , THEY PRODUCED THE MARRIGE PHOTOS OF HIM WHICH WAS TAKEN BY ME BY DIGITAL CAMERA AND SAVED IN LAPTOP
THEY HAVE TAKEN ALL MY PASSWORD AND I M NOT ABLE TO LOGIN TO ANY ONLINE ACCOUNT , THEY STOLE ALL MY DATA
THEY TOOK ALL MY FRIENDS TELEPHONE NUMBERS AND TOLD THEM THAT I WAS IN JAIL , THEY THRASH ME TO JAIL
SHE TOOK ALL THE RECIPT OF MY PURCHASE AND THEN IN FALSE CASE THEY WROTE THAT WHAT EVER I AM HAVING IS GIVEN BY THEM
(ALL THE ARTICLES ARE PURCHASED BY ME AND WHAT EVER THE RECIPT I HAVE (WHICH WAS NOT THERE IN HOME ) I AM ATTACHING IT.
