28 February, 2008

meenu pardhan - haryana

Name: meenu pardhan
Comments: i am very deprested with my husband
he is so uncoprative,after marrige he never talk me good,he always start abusing to me and to my family
after one year we had a child
but he didn't changed.till now he didn't
every day he fights with me,he likes to hitting me,he feel happy to seeing me crying
he never used to meet me with my family.some off the time he used to slap on my face in the mid of the road and put out me from my car and make me to go home alone .
i am so depresed with him i cant understand what he wants
i am a selfemployed women .i am running a cyber cafe,he used to come in office in evening after 4.00pm.from morring to till night i had to give the duty.but he never talk me good in my office he always starts with abusing me and my family
pls tell what shall i do
pls dont call me ,only mail me if he know that i had contact u he will kill me .

Dowry Law Victim - hyderabad

Name: Dowry Law Victim
Comments: MY GIRL CHILD IS WITH HER AND SHE IS FROM OTHER STATE WHAT OPTIONS DO I HOLD TO GET HER BACK SHE IS MISSING HER SCHOOL SHE LOST HER 2 YEARS OF SCHOOLING DUE TO THIS .
PLS HELP.MOTHER IS A CARELESS LADY HAS ALL CRIMINAL PLANS THRU HER BROTHER WHO HAS LONKS WITH STAMP PAER ACCUSES ACP USED HIS INFLUENCE TO GET THE CASE FILED. HE IS BEHIND BARS NOW.
NEED TO FILE DIVORCE THINKING OF KIDS MY SON IS WITH ME GIVEN TO ME BY HIGH COURT.NEED TO GET MY DAUGHTER.

SACHIN

27 February, 2008

Suneel K. Prajapati - Sonepat/Haryana

Name: Suneel K. Prajapati
Comments: She is go back her home in march 2006 but not agree to come back we are nagotiate wtih my in-law but they refused to send my wife they give a application in women cell patiala in jan 2007 but there is my case is refused becasue she is not aggree to live with me. in feb i filed the section 9 HMA in Yamunanagar/Haryana they appere of hearing date on 10 april 2007 my in law adv. agree to send my wife and take date 19 may 2007 but they no appere on date and filed stay apllication from highcourt haryana punjab. on hearing date 19 may 2007 judge issuse new samman to my in-law and her advocate. give a new date 10 aug 2007 but in august court say remove stay on san 9 HMA case. In june 2007 they give a new application in mohali women cell i attanded 3 to 4 times of hearing on 4-08-2007 we attanted last date of hearing in feb 2008 they ladgue FIR aggaint me and my parents
police arrest them and lived 7 day in jail now they are on bail but my bail is pending

bbr - hyderabad

Name: bbr
Comments: case threatening against family members by the lady. (Husband works in abroad, not interested when invited by the husband)

shaik dawood - chennai

Name: shaik dawood
Comments: plese help me

26 February, 2008

Eshwar - karnataka

Name: Eshwar
Comments: am a Hindu & married to a hindu girl 1 yr back. It was a regstd marriage. Within 2 wks of marriage she was found to be having a heart disease by birth. They denied that they didnt know about this disease till then. I supported her for check-ups and treatments and it was decided that she will go for surgery after 6 months. We went abroad since I was deputed there from my company, returned as promised after 7 months, financed & supported her for surgery morally to go thru this phase. She went to stay with her parents post surgery, never returned back. Its been like that since last
6 months. She had refused first-night sex citing shes not comfortable with men except her father.

We never got along well. We had developed serious differences. She had some inferiority complex to have come up from her childhood. She would classify herself as a victim in everything everyone does with her. I continued relationship hoping my moral support and assurance will boost her. She was not supportive to my job, not cooperative to run the house, unrealistically very demanding for her materialistic pleasures, we never had intercourse because of her health and doctor's cautions on pregnancy in her disease term. All attempts to adjust with her was in vain. She continued her ways of damaging relationship and friction and making false accusations despite enjoying everything offered to her. Her father was supportive of her. They started new allegations on my family, my job, parents and everything I am related to. She broke all promises we made before marriage. She showed some suicidal symptoms also. I suggested counselling for us, but she & her father were not cooperative. Finally the elders suggested to separate. Her father & her started new allegations that I have not looked after well, and tortured her, which is shocking and far from truth to counter the reasons I mentioned to separate. They are very noncooperative for mediations also. Now they are asking huge amout for mutual consent petition to coordially sepatate. This money I cannot give in my lifetime. I feel this is grave injustice. Can you please offer some guidance. What would be a reasonable amount to offer/ compensate her if it was mutual consent considering I have no real wealth, and a 6L/annum salary. Thanks in advance.

Rachana Shah - Mumbai

Name: Rachana Shah
Comments: Dear Sir/Madam
I am havng 7 yrs old daughter.My divorce is on last stage,anyhow my inlaws are ready to pay me amount of rs 3.5lacs to get divorced,since last 4 years i have been staying with my parents,though my father is heart patient and is in 55+ age, anyhow he is taking proper care of our daily needs.My inlaws are threatning me like anything and saying me they will not allow me to marry for second time.as i am not at all intrested in having any realtion with them, what surname will my daughter will have once i will marry again.My in laws were saying that their surname will stay with my daughter till she get married.please advice me .about the legal law regarding the surname issue,,i dont want to give my daughter their name also.As my daughter is in my custody.She visits him alternate sundays,that also whenever he wish he comes or not ,he is also hving drinks so i am afraid to send my daughter to his place .i am scared for that too.

khalid - hyderabad

Name: khalid
Comments: hi, a false case was filed against my self, my mother and brother. i was sent to remand for 48 hrs local s.i (bastard) from my same community took bribe and filed false case. i am a govt employee. further dvc is also filed. how ever after negotiations we agreed to pay 8lacs which is too much for me. she came to court and agreed for compromise for that amount and divorce.the case is in transition period(i.e since compromise 498 in lok adalat)now they are planing to file further cases and see that iam removed from services.
can they file further cases against me? also i heard that recently a court in bombay passed ajudgement that dvc is not applicable for muslims. please advice me

Manoj Sharma - Maharashtra

Name: Manoj Sharma
Comments: I am Manoj Sharma. I stay with my family in a small rented house in Malad(Mumbai).I was married on 9th feb 2007. After 3 or 4 day of mirrage my wife started saying that she does not want to stay with my family .I managed to keep her calm & explaing her that i cannot stay seperate from my family which she wanted. But after few days she had to got to her parents house for some relagious retiuals. After one month she came back and started saying the same things.Now she started demanding my salary also. One day her brother also came with 30 to 40 people & gave me & my family bad words.But still me explained her brother that her demand was wrong.After few day I was transfer to Bangalore for companies work.I left for bangalore on 22 May 2007 leaving my wife at my mumbai house .After 2 Days my wife left my house saying she wanted to meet her father.From that day onwards she did not return back.She started demanding the same that she want to stay with me .But i stay in bangalore on company provided residence where i stay with 8 more peoples. I tried to explain her many times but she didnot move from her demands.And one day she forced me to choose one either my family or her but I still explain her that she has to stay with my family since bangalore trip was temporary.But she did not want to go to my house after several telephonic conversation also.Now on 21 December 2007 she gave a notice that my parents removed her from my house. But thia was false & the date she mention was 27 june which was also false. She wanted to know about my dection for materimonial decition. But still she didnot return back . Now she sent me second notice on 11th feb 2008 stating the same things. Now her family are diverting her decition of leaving my home to my family .That is they are moving this matter to 498A law .This may bring my family in trouble. Please advice what should i do.

25 February, 2008

S. Kumar - Bangalore

Name: S. Kumar
Comments: My sister in law has filed a complaint with the Women Commission and the case is in the Metropolitan Court for hearing on 1/03/2008. She has filed a complaint against me under DV Act 2005. My mother had a property in her name from my father's earnings and was disposed off in 1997 for settlement to my brother for his earnings. Myself and my brother married in 1993 and 1994 and lived till the disposal of house in 1997. After disposal of the house, we lived separately and I have taken care of my parents. My mother expired in 1998 and father is still alive and he is living with me. To extract money from me, my sister in law and her sister who is an advocate and working with the Karnataka Women commission has filed a false complaint stating that the property of my mother was disposed off for my business and promising them that I will construct a house for them to live in the same property where I am staying manipulated the registration of the property in my wife's name. They have also demanded monetary benefits for payment of rent till date, stridhan, medical etc as per the DV ACt 2005. My brother is staying with their family i.e. his inlaws. I have engaged an Advocate and no proper response has been given to me since he has asked for time to go through the complaint.
Please advise.

S. Kumar

24 February, 2008

mahendra - Karwar/Karnataka

Name: mahendra
Comments: I got married to a girl from Poona. She came to stay in Karwar, and then the problems started with her msrried sister and her husband interefering in our every day life. On the night of 27th January 2007,her father and brother came to our house at 10:00 pm in the night fully drunk and assulted my family members. My motehr was seriously injured and was taken to Goa and kept in ICU for three days. That day the police registered a case against them u/s 307 for attempted murder. They also put a case against me u/s 323. then after a week when I bought my mothetr back from the hospital they tried to force me to withdraw the case u/s 307, which i rejected and so they put the case against me u/s 498 A and also accused me of marital rape. The charge sheet of all the three cases have been filed and the cases have just started. In the meanwhile they have fixed the marriage of their Brother an hence want to solve the case but are demanding money to a tune of Rs3 lacks for compromise and when i have rejected the same they have put a maintenence petition against me in the Pune, Pimpri court to harress me to come to pune and they have threatened me of physical assult when i come to poona for this case on 27.03.2008.

YOGESH S RAJPUT - kalyan/maharashtra

Name: YOGESH S RAJPUT
Comments: After marriage my wife left for her father house the second day with her friends. after negotiating she came back with me the sixth day after that she you to torture me for giving me the maney to help her father after neglecting this matter by me she called her brother on 9-08-2007 and her brother gave me threatenings of 498 (a) and left with her brother on 10-08-2007. after that my requested her father for sending her back but he gave bad words to my mother and use to keep telephone down then my mother use to get depressed then i use try to contact them for whats the matter then her family members use to give bad words and keep the telephone back.then iuse to contact them through sms. Then one day her father sended a message to come to their house and take her then on 2 -12-2007 i and my mother went to yeola her native. but they refused to send their daughter with us and quarreled with us the girl didnt even came in front of us when we asked her father he gave bad words and beaten me with the help of my wife friends and filed a 498(a) when he recieved allegal notice sent by our lawyer stating that they were harresed and mangalsutra was taken by us. my mother is heart patient and she gets deprresed i was put in the jail and tortured by police for arresting my family members my brothers who are not staying with me and are nat married and out of city for work purpose at that time i am given threatning by her relatives that you pay him 3.5 lakhs and we will take all cases back And will make her another marriage with the boy she was having affair at her fathers place. i am being tortured by my father in law i have to go all the way long to yeola for court matters ana my mother is a heart patient i want a help of human rights and mahila ayog who can help me in this matter to get out of this situation.

girish prajapati - mumbai

Name: girish prajapati
Comments: Hi,
I got marrried just 2 months back.the fact that she doesn't know cooking & other household cores was hidden from us.Yet we adjusted to things & started teaching her cooking.neither was she willing to learn.casualy,we informed her parents after some days.But they reacted to it harshly.and pressurised us as to how we can even talk about it ?.some days latter (on thursday),her father claimed that he has to have a surgery (on sunday)(for some pain in neck) and he is sending 2 people to pick her up.we told him we would send her on saturday.The next day they came and all ( with my wife) left my home arguing we are torchuring her.Later on monday,she called up my mother and declared that she no longer wishes to have realtion with me.On tuesday,they came (without intimating) and asked for stridhan and that we would declare divorce on Rs.100 stamp paper.we triedd to pacify but of no use.we asked them to give us time to think.and they come after 2 days so that we can have 2 people amidst us.But after two hours,they came with police to my place.Infront of police they carried away their stridhan.and left responsibility of preapring divorce documents with us.After preparing divorce documents we intimated them.to our surpise they asked for Rs.350000/-.and told us to get back to them. after some days we realised from the police station (they called us )that they have given a writen complaint of harrassment for dowry of Rs. 50,00,000/-.and now they are askinf for Rs. 350000/-.We got afraid.and approached a lawyer. He and police advised us to write a written complaint to police station giving complete details of the incidents which we have done so far.
All our neighbours and our relatives are with us.

What should be our next step ? what next can they do?.what are the laws that can help us? can police directly arrest us or they need to interrogate first and then come to conclusion ?

Please advice and help us.i am asthamatic, my father has High BP,and my younger brother is handicapped (cant walk and speak).

Regards,

girish prajapati
09967495754

23 February, 2008

bhadrakant c. mistry - mumbai

Name: bhadrakant c. mistry
Comments: I am not allowed to have food in room,my things are damaged,obstructions made purposely in movement,computer system is thrown. She claims this is my father in laws's room why you are here get out.She makes fales baseless complains to local police station. I am a senior citizen,My son
is of 35 yrs.earning well is is also misbehaves hence I am against his setting up. with help of her brother room interior has been forcibly changed,Air ventilation is closed.
I also have disabled mother who is bedridden and all nature calls she has to do is open space so My movement is restricted.they even do not
wish to put curtain whilst she make her nature calls, she is also helpless and not in position to complain any one.

ajit misra - ghaziabad

Name: ajit misra
Comments: dear sir i'm having bad marriage and have kept quiet till date because of my childon . on 20th jan 2008 my wife intentionally fought with my sister who have come for winter vacation and called police alledging that she was victim of domestic violence and of dowry act. the fir was lodged during my absence and i only came to know through newspaper. presently i got stay from high court.

neeru - ludhiana

Name: neeru
Comments: My parents r suffering bcaz of my brothers marriage.Their daughter in law keeps on threatning to file a dowry case against them she is asking for money.what should my parents do?The law protects women not men n their families.

21 February, 2008

vikash rahi - Arrah(bihar)

Name: vikash rahi
Comments: my aunty was pregnant in 04 & called own sister for help. her sis. burned body & aged32 yrs. old so far as she was unmarried. after deliver when aunty's sis gone to her own home deoria(u.p.)my aunty send a lttl daughter with sis. & after one week send to me for brought her daughter. in deoria, by force cought me as kidnaped. a lawyer signed me on some blank papers & said to me now u r hsbnd of my daughter. but yet,i & my family accept all because we fared & poor.
after some time i began to lived at noida & jobed in courier co. one day
in early morning my wife cought my lower lip & ate it after stretch. (that tragedy outed by news papers). than she gone to deoria & claimed to family that "hsbnd bited me daily" after one yr i received a notice of police off. & goto civil court for maint.5000/month.hlp us.

dinar - Mumbai

Name: dinar
Comments: she can FIR 498a physical mental torture our family
My father and me arrest 30th sept 2006 we got bail same day

18 February, 2008

Najeebuddin, Mohammed - Kingdom of Saudi Arab, Al-Khobar

Name: Najeebuddin, Mohammed
Comments: the problem is with my wifes brother he wanted the house from her mother, but mother wanted to give the house to my wife, so he put pressure on her to leave the house, she told me this even before marriage, so i told her untill u setteldown the problem we wont marry, actually ours is love marriage. so her brother is angry on me and even my wife i noticed she is dual character personality. finally her brother maild me so many times and threatened me that he will file the case against me thru my wife i have written email proof finall 498a case has been filed and police has come to my home in india and went without arrest. please help me

17 February, 2008

Juliana Thomas Lobo - Vikhroli (W), Mumbai

Name: Juliana Thomas Lobo
Comments: I had filed an NC FIR against My Husband Mr. Thomas Lobo, the CR No. is 373/07 494/498A at Parksite police Station on 30th November 2007 and still the action has not been taken against him nor i have got my justice.

I have been meeting the Joint CP and also running around to the Zone 7 and also to the police station, but no action has been taken.

Please I need help in this matter

Juliana Thomas Lobo

Allan - Mumbai

Name: Allan
Comments: Nothing as of now

Syama Sundar Rao - hyderabad

Name: Syama Sundar Rao
Comments: My wife lived with me for 21 days and left to her parents due to some small petty issues, and did not show any interest for reunion , just tried to coerce me to stay away from my old widowed mother or to stay with her parents, for which I did not agree.Her sister works in the Lok adalath at Guntur, this also made her to warn me of dire consequences if I dont listen to her after that we did not stay together. I am very much afraid and In 2003 I left for maldieves, In 2006 December I came on a vaaction. They called my brother for a settelement and had booked case of 498A and also framed some other charges against me and my relatives , They jailed me and my mother for fes days . It shatterd my morale and in 2007 octobe they filed DVC also . Her sister who is working in lok adalath started playing the GAME she exploited us by utilising her links at Gubtur court , when ever we go she calls us for councilling and make all types harassment , recently by just misleading us that the court will send a notice of next sitting, she made the court to send non bailable warrants against me , my mother and brothers, we were put to lot of mental torture . All ready we were put behind bars once , again facing this ordeal means ending our lives in humiliation. My old widowed mother already lost her health and she is suffering from sugar, B.P and other old age problems, We have three more wives in law in our home , who were very happy since 10-15 years of their mairetal lives .. why this lady is like this and is hell bent on harassing me and my family ... I request you to kindly protect me and my family and do justice... if people conduct detailed enqiry and blame us .. we feel happy and with out any thing if we are harassed like tis what a common man like me can do. MY brothers wives are put to lot of mental agony as their husbands, just because thay are my brothrs, are put to lot of torture. Is it right ot suffer other woman like this ...if this law is to protect the woman.

16 February, 2008

Peeyush Kumar - Jamshedpur

Name: Peeyush Kumar
Comments: We were married in 2005 and my wife on some pretext or other has only stayed with me for 9/10 months till now. We had a offspring who is 2 years old and as of now the baby has stayed with me for 6 months and at present my wife has taken the baby against my wishes to her parents for the last 9 months. The wife does not tolerate her in laws and always tries to keep her parents with her to which I have objection. She does not do any house work and the house had one full time maid and 2 part time maids. Now she is threatning me with filing 498a case. Pl advice what to do.

yadvarinder - patiala

Name: yadvarinder
Comments: we both lived separately for work job reasons ,i got selected in army and feeling insecure about staying together with child, she commited suicide on the same day of my selection at her work place hostel while i was away for my interview and my parents were at home,her parents registered case, they had deposited 6.5 lac in her name at the time of marriage in her account which are still there though in different acconts but still in her name only, rather the balance is now about 8 lacs including her salary account, they also mentioned various jewellery and gift items given to relatives and her, case is in court charges will be framed now,no suicide note ,no previous complaints i want to ask if the money is with her since marriage in her accont does that amount to dowry

15 February, 2008

Prakash P - BANGALORE

Name: Prakash P
Comments: MIS-UNDESTANDING WITH FAMILY MEMBERS AND WILLING TO COME OUT OF JOINT FAMILY.

Vishwanath - Hubli

Name: Vishwanath
Comments: My wife quarrels with me & leave the house without any information for no reason & threatens me that she is going to die( by calling on my cell phone). This has happened 2 to 3 times. I have given police complaint on this matter. Police called both of us & given advice to my wife not to do like this. But i am afraid of this matter. Pls suggest me what further legal advice i can get.

14 February, 2008

partha bhattacharjee - new delhi

Name: partha bhattacharjee
Comments: Marriage - 9 Aug 2006, Chandigarh
Lived in - Delhi, living with Father, Mother, Sister.

Complaint made in Police by in laws (Diary only, no FIR) - 3 Feb 2007
Charge - Harassment, Cruelty, Threat to life.
Complaint made in Police by us (Diary only, no FIR) - 3 Feb 2007
Charge - Threat to life.
Both charges mutually taken back - 19 Feb 2007

Bride left home - 14 Sep 2007 (living in London since)

Current condition
- Parents of bride threatening 498A
- Bride pushing to leave joint family and live alone with her.
- I am afraid of my life / money, if I live alone with bride. Her Parents and friends are a threat.

Please advice.

12 February, 2008

kharak - Lalkuan/Uttarakhand

Name: kharak
Comments: Father is cancer Patient(76 Yr).I was Central Govt Employee.when I was with father in Hospital,She moved out of home to in laws peacefully and did not come back.Did lot's of effort to take back.Also I applied in Mahila Helpline,she replied by 498a case and I surrendered in lower court to be sent to jail,got regular bail.She did created probllems earlier too,her brother made me write a letter earlier when she had left home also.I cry for my sweet daughter.They are threatening my parents and brother and sister to falsely send jail.I am tense.

11 February, 2008

SA - new delhi

Name: SA
Comments: please communicate via email so i can give you details.
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With utmost honesty I write to you the details:

My known person Engineer HUSBAND (M.Tech, Delhi College of Engineering)was married to WIFE (MBBS, Lucknow) around 1993 and has an 11-year-old son. There are enough witnesses in colony where HUSBAND & WIFE lived to show that she was allegedly involved with one Sachin Balyan (HUSBAND's unmarried relative).
WIFE'S PRE-MEDIDATED planning for at least one year before she created a false scene at her father-in-law’s house in order to file a Recovery of Dowry (406) case speaks for itself.
FACTS:

· In 2003, WIFE was the last person to open her husband’s locker twice and removed her jewellery (the bank’s documents have been submitted in Court & CAW).

· WIFE slowly removed the items, clothings, valuables including some of her in-laws property from the house through her sister and brother who came to stay for a few days and left with lot of baggage, apparently stuffed with her items and items of her in-laws.

· WIFE’s father had given few items in marriage to her and he had actually signed the list and handed to her husband. The list has been submitted to Court.

· WIFE filed for divorce in Lucknow in March 2004.

· WIFE THEN filed a false case in CAW and submitted that first list of item to be recovered as Stridhan.

· After 60 or 90 days as a method to extort money from her husband’s family WIFE filed a totally fabricated list of items to CAW worth lacs of rupees. The CAW or court did not question that there should be some receipts or money drawn from account of WIFE’s parents that they used to buy these imaginary items at her marriage time and gave to HUSBAND.

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The false fabricated case:

WIFE took her SON to Lucknow in Feb 2004 on pretext on spending school holidays. She then went to her grandfather’s “Death Anniversary i.e. Shraad” to Muzzaffarnagar.
On 14th March 2004, she barged into HUSBAND father’s house at 8 am in morning alone. Her father (who resides in Lucknow), her brother (who resides in Bombay) and mamas (who resides in Muzzaffarnagar) were hiding near the bushes outside the house.
WIFE went upstairs where she stayed in a complete separate unit with her husband , woke her husband up and as per her PRE-MEDATED plan told him to go downstairs as his mother was having heart attack. HUSBAND rushed downstairs. Meantime WIFE & her hiding family outside called the police on mobile phone & saying that she was being beaten.
The Anand Vihar police arrived at house with everyone in shock. Police went upstairs. WIFE based her Recovery of Dowry (406) case on this incident in CAW cell. No one or police investigated how her family that resides 100s of miles away were present outside HUSBAND father’s house when this INCIDENT happened.
With this incident on her side, after 11 years of marriage WIFE FIRST filed for divorce in Lucknow, UP in 2004. After extortion threats of 70 lacs to her husband and in-laws, WIFE THEN filed a Recovery of Dowry (406) case in CAW Cell, East Delhi.


WIFE has got a DIVORCE but the 406 dowry is still going on in Karkardooma court. Its five years and HUSBAND has lot health and his 80 year old parents frail with worry. SHE LATER IMPLICATED HUSBAND'S NRI RELATIVES WHO DONT VIsIT INDIA VERY OFTEN.

ARE THEY GOING TO LIVE THRU HELL ALL THEIR LIVES TILL HER DEMAND FOR 70 LACS IS COMPLETED.

well-wisher for husband
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satya nand srivastava - jalandhar, punjab

Name: satya nand srivastava
Comments: i m mentally harredes with her, all times she used dirty languages, from last five years i m in menatlly tensed.

10 February, 2008

queueup - uttar pradesh

Name: queueup
Comments: about 38 years of age,husband frequently pressurised and emotionally harassed by the wife and her parents and relatives on every small issues to to show their superiority.since the girls family is influential the girl keeps her word in every matter threatening the husband of dire consequences .I(husband)would like to know that what steps could be taken before hand so as to avoid arrest in case a false complaint is lodged regarding dowry or violence towards the girl.what steps could also be taken to keep the husbands parents and relatives out of all the false mess which could be created by the girl as presently the laws are so much in favour of the women that men can easily become victims to false cases lodged by women.

09 February, 2008

Ashish Soin - Nagpur

Name: Ashish Soin
Comments: i am resident of nagpur married on 18th feb'2003, had a 3 years old baby boy, my wife, my parents and my brother stays together here, since my marriage my wife is harassing me a lot, using a very slang language with me and my family, every alternate day rather everyday she fights with me harrass me and speak in such manner like (kya karega, maarega, aa saand maar, haraamjaade saale raakshas) some times my temperament get high even i shout on her feeling helpless this happens almost everyday. on 3rd of feb 2008 my kid got an admission with alucky draw system in a very prestigeous schoool here, we all in the family was there when his name was announced, we were happy. on 5th of feb my wife asked me to take her along to my kids new school to see the final list, i asked her that we already heard about his admission on 3rd feb no need to go again on 5th just to see the list but she was argueing, then i said ok since the school is very far, me or my brother will go there now again she started shouting on me (tumko to tumhara bhai, tumhare maa baap se hi matlab hai, meri to koi aukaat hi nahi hai is ghar me) the i said please do not talk to me in this manner then again the same thin (kya karega maarega saand saale) this time this goes for a longer time and she went to her sisters place leaving my son behind. on 6th of feb 2008, when me and my brother was there in the office, i got a call from my father saying my wife has come in police jeep along with two mle police, on female police and her sister and jijaji,she has come there to to take her son, then i spoken to PSI and allowed him to take my son with them,she had registered a non cognizable report against me on 5th feb'2008 now i had heard from some sources that she is planning to register an fir under section 498a, show me some ways to come out of this.....

dhiraj kumar ray - Darbhanga/delhi

Name: dhiraj kumar ray
Comments: I belong to maithil brahman family where tradition of of second marriage is till now means when i was married on 30-06-2005 my wife didnot came to my native house/family.she has given birth a children on 18-07-2007.after my son birth i went to see my child they have satrted demanded money at that time i have not money because my all money is with my wife.i was in Ghana for 6 month during nov 2005 to apr 2006 my all money came to his a/c thru transfer.in nov 2007 they have lodged a complain At cjm darbhanga that they are demanding money and not doing second marriage under 498A3/4,307.after filing complain my family person/relatives have given undertaking to CJM darbhanga for second marriage then second marriage was done on date 10.12.2007 during second marriage her father started abusing after 4 days of completion of second marriage custom are finished on 4th day my father in law. brother-in-law mother-in-law came with arms like dagger&lathi to my house and taken away his daughter to his house my wife told our family person that i will come tomorrow,on date 15-12-2007. after 2 day she has filed again complain case against my family.

08 February, 2008

Divya Mohan - Delhi / Patna

Name: Divya Mohan
Comments: My Bhabhi (elder brother’s wife) has filled false criminal case against us u/s 498A, 307, 323 and 3 & 4 of Dowry P Act.
Marriage: 07072006
Child: Non
Date of filling: 31/08/2007
Place: Patna
Court: CJM Patna
Witness: her father and her mother
Accused: brother, sister, mother and father (all the family member)
Bhabhi: Udita Gupta; D/o Narender Prasad (Step-father), contractor at Patna Airport and Kiran Devi, Section Officer, Airport Authority of India, Patna Airport; Both got love-married after the death (GOD knows how?) of her husband and her husband’s father
Status and occurrence: she hardly spent abt 4 month with my brother. Indirectly blacking us for money since marriage (god know for what?)
Parents instigated her to quarrel and leave the husband; demands money
Went to Patna deserting my brother on 14072007. Taken everything … (even the fry pan, and plates from kitchen) from her husband’s house. After reaching Patna, openly demanded money (Rs 25 lacs) and after that filled a case in CJM court on 31082007 at Patna. In the meanwhile she has been continuing in demanding money without disclosing abt the case. We came to know abt the case just last weak. Also filled maintenance case on 10102007 at Patna which we received summon in Nov.
Cognizance date of criminal case is 11022008.
Please suggest accordingly along with any suggested lawyer and contacts.
Thanks and Regards.
Divya Mohan
+91-9911027400

Naikhil Pandya - Hyderabad

Name: Naikhil Pandya
Comments: Would like to know @ 498A,
Married in 1993, Were staying in Mumbai since then. She started staying with her parents from 2006 abruptly. Cited Domestic violence( which was an argument and a fight). After 2 years , she Filed a petition in Mumbai court in sept 2007.. I shifted to Hyderabad in JUne 2007. She in her petition has asked for custody of children(2) and pots of money which I cannot afford to give.
My parents are old and stay with me. I am the only son.

Kindly advise on the probability of 498A and how to go about in this case. I have to appear befre the councellor in family court on 14th FEb( 1st interaction)

Detailed draft required could be send to you. However the brief as desired is as above.

REgards,

07 February, 2008

Mohd Touseef Bari - Allahabad

Name: Mohd Touseef Bari
Comments: TOTALLY MISUSE OF 498A FRAUD CASES
WIFE WILL BE BLACK MAILING ME TILL THE DATE OF MARRIAGE
Hi,
My Name is mohd touseef bari s/o late mohd abdul bari residence 84 lig gous nagar kareli, allahabad, up, i am alone son in my family. We will not taken or demand any kind of thing or dowry. becouse we will related a very high class family and my wife relate a very poor family his father was selling a cap in allahabad market. so that our family will not be given any kind of dowry and one the things is that in our marriage my father in law will demanded me 50000 rs mahr amount of his daughter marriage on the time of marriage so that in these time our family will quit still and not be said any word and agree in 50000 rs mahar amount. At this time my father in law will black mailing for creating thesen kind of scenomina.

After the marriage we and my wife was very happy becouse she was alone bride in our small family after some month passing down my father in law will be come to allahabad and say to my motherwho was a goverment employye in health dept. so that he says that, "my business is not working properly and this year there are no body given or ordering for manufaturing a caps every whole seller could not be buy my caps. so that his second blackmailing is started against my family. Kamaluudin who is father of my he says thet if u would given me 1 lac rs. so we created small factory for manufacturing a caps & jacket, My mother does not thinking for any kind of things and given her 1 lac rs in 02 may 2007. after that my father in law says we will given u after eid-ul-mubarak with 25000 rs interest.

After some days i am go to rampur and see that there r no factory created by my father in law and there is no business created by my sasural people so we will be think that where is my money. I asking to my father in law u would not created a factory where is the money. My fatherinlaw say we given u money in next please relaxe, so i will come back to allahaba.
After some days my fatherinlaw will come to allahabad in my house. so my asking for his money so my fatherin law says "if u would asking related to those money who u should given me. we haven blackmailing u and admit a fraud fir against related to dowry" i this word my mother will quit still. and says if you should manage my money after some days or month its is better for u and me to becouse there is very common relation between my alone son and your daughter so that u will given my money if would maged the money after some days' so that in these kind of scenomina our family will very harashed about the word which says by my father in law.

After some days my wife brother and his sister husband come to my house at 3 pm on 12-12-2007. to 14-12-2007. they will stay at my house two three days. and still go with out any information about my mother and me. after some days where passing left my wife behaviou was very cruely and she was trying to harshing me and my mother becouse she will taking a very huge action against me but will not think that becouse i am loving my wife to much, and my mother will also love him to.

At 17-12-2007 my father in law will took a forward step against me and take unneccessary action which we doestnot think ever afterly. he was given two jeep of police from thana kotwali allahabad for arressting my mother and me. so that police will come to my home a see that ourfamily will very small and there are no body will harashed him and also he belongs to very high class society. i that time my father in law and wife says infront of police that, ' his family was demende me 2 lacs rs and motar cycle against these word police will see our home that every things is in there are no problem and nor who will we demended so police will says to my wife and fathers in law that, why u trying to hereshed these kind of wonderfull family these r looking very googd person and i think so that he will be demanded u 2 lac rs and motar cycle. so that in the time police will see his fraud and blackmailing which is created about my wife and my father in law. in these steps who took be created by my wife and fatherin law. my family and i was very upset becouse we will always love his family and her and his family was blackmailing me till the date of marriage so that, my wife and my father in law go to in police jeep in 17-12-2007. and on that day police will not arrested me and family becouse he was knowing that i am right.

So, after going of my wife to my house we will think that why he or she was trying to punished me and trying unnessary action against me so that my mother and me was searching some important thing which our wife will kept her separetaly and see that every jwellaries who will given by my mother. she will stolen like thief so that we will think like that when his brother and his sister husban will come to my house he will stolen jwellaris in my house and that's why his father will taking him unnecessary action against mme that her blackmailing will not be open to any of her family. We think that they totaly fraud people who will admit my house through the till date of marriage. he was just like a terrorsit and stolen my family jwellaries and our rs which we will given her on may 2007. and he was trying to take hereshment with me for safety of his stolen things.

After some days when my father and my wife in rampur, he was taking totaly frouding step against me and admited 498A/506 and DP Act 3/4 against me. with out any kind of proof. and rampur police will admited these fraud fir against me and after some days rampur police will come to allahabad for arressting me but on 17-12-2007 our house will locked and we goto our village becouse we r sameleess in these society. so that rampur police will not be searching any kind of proof and admited his fir against me and in her fir she will be not shown that what kind of action he taking against me at allahabad.

So that we do arresting stay or in Allahabad Highcourt in 18-01-2007 and our stay order will be admited so that rampur police will always hereshing me and always be call me that u and your family will should be came to rampur.

my wife belong to very bad family and his family people always be call to me and hereshing me for different kind of attitude.

we will be admited dawa-e-rukshati against my wife on 04-01-2007 under sec.9 of hindu marriage act.

and we will do fir against my wife and his fatherinlaw and his brother and sister husban that his family will always be blackmailing me and stolen my important jwellaries and trying to kill my mother and me also under sec 406/506 IPC on the dated of 3rd january 2007. but the allahabad police does't taking a forward step against her. and maintaing a chargesheet against these kind of unlawfull people. who would be misuse of 498A

I am tausif bari going thru the worst time of my life. My wife Gulnaaz Bi d/o Kamaluddin Residence - Baradari Mahmudkhan, Police station Kotwali Dist Rampur, UP. has falssely implicated me in a 498A, 506 and DP Act 3/4 case. The police have registered the case without trying to find out the truth. Quite frankly, I am a victim of illegal use of available law by a deceitful wife and careless police action.

Please send me the copy of this dismissal. I would like to learn from it to deal with my difficult situation.

police doe's not take neccessary action

this totaloy misuse of 498 a against men.

Thanx & Regards,

Mohd Touseef Bari

09793012944

tausiflove56@yahoo.com

ARVIND PANDEY - BHOPAL/M. P.

Name: ARVIND PANDEY
Comments: oct 1998 wife leaved my home and wants me to go with her. I filled divorce case in bhopal in september 1999 and after that she registered 498a,406 in faridabad against me and my family(my handicaped and asthematic mother,my elde and younger sisters and my younger brother were made accused, but after spending huge money,me-my mother & my elder sister charged by police in challan.)ipc 125 has decided recently rs 3000/- per month by faridabad lower court,when the salary was shown rs 8500/- pm by me.now this is under revision in the same court to higher class judge. the 498a next date is 28/04/2008 for police evidence.

06 February, 2008

Mohd Touseef Bari - Allahabad

Name: Mohd Touseef Bari
Comments: .

abhalla - delhi

Name: abhalla
Comments: Case is pending in the High Court for bail. It was dismissed in the lower court because we were not ready to deposit Rs 4.25 lacs in lieu of dowry articles which was enforced upon us. Wife has submitted a istridhan list of Rs 60 lacs. Presently we have deposited the said amount in the High Court and the subsequent hearing will be in March 2008.

05 February, 2008

Alpana - Yamunanagar, haryana

Name: Alpana
Comments: > Hi there,
>
> Since you are helping to other, please help my sister also. Please
read this what happen to my sister and help her please.
>
> Please help a sister sitting in India with her son
> > and waiting for this USA-NRI, who has cheated her.
> >
> > His name is Lovekesh Kumar (Full name LOVEKESH KUMAR
> > SHARMA). He is from Haryana, Village ISHOPUR, Distt,
> > YAMUNA NAGAR, Postal Code 135001. Earlier he was in
> > Australia and married a highly educated girl name
> > ALPANA SHARMA from distt Saharanpur , UP.. He took
> > good money from her parents with a promise that he
> > will take her to Australia soon, but he never did
> > so. Then this person moved from Australia to UK and
> > then finally to USA , long time back in 2000. He
> > always keeps promise to her wife that he will take
> > her to USA soon, but he never kept his words. ALPANA
> > is M.Sc. with FIRST division, very handsome and
> > smart, over and above she is a sincere India woman,
> > not to disclose her feelings to anyone. She is still
> > living with her father-in-laws house and waiting for
> > this CHEAT.
> >
> > Over and above, now we came to know that he has
> > married some American woman, having 3 kids in USA
> > and he is living with them happily. We do not have
> > his address and contact details. We only know that
> > he is working some where in USA , in state of Oregon
> > , near Portland city. He is working as Manager with
> > a some leading store name ‘Center Market� in
> > that area.. There is some city name Dayton . How a
> > man can leave his beautiful wife and lovely son and
> > can marry with some American, who has 3 kids?????
> >
> > Alpana is like my sister though I am not directly
> > relative to her, (like from her village), but I am
> > not able to see her condition, how a highly
> > educated, beautiful girl can spend 6-7 years without
> > her husband, just after got married.
> >
> >
> > Here are additional information: -
> >
> > Defaulter Information: -
> >
> > Name : LOVEKESH KUMAR SHARMA
> > Vill: ISHOPUR
> > DISTT: YAMUNANAGAR, HARYANA â€" 135001
> > TELEPHONE NO. 01732-2-94175 (HOME)
> >
> > Other villages phone no 01732-2-94112/ 94104/94105
> >
> > Lady â€" ALPANA SHARMA still lives at above address.
> >
> > Information about him in USA . THIS GUY IS WORKING
> > IN CENTER MARKETING LEADING STORE IN PORTLAND AREA,
> > IN ONE OF THESE OFFICE.
> >
> > CENTER MARKET
> > 901 Ferry St
> > Dayton, OR 97114
> > (503) 864-3050
> >
> > 216 SW Washington St
> > Dallas, OR 97338
> > (503) 831-5380
> >
> > 3401 3rd St
> > Tillamook, OR 97141
> > (503) 842-6581
> >
> >
> > POOR INDIAN

Nagaraju vellala - Los angeles / USA

Name: Nagaraju vellala
Comments: Hello sir, I got married on May 11th 2005 and it was an arranged marriage, I was engaged with her for 6 months and in that period only i realized that she wasnt appropriate for me as she was so adamant and dictating terms, but then my mom was telling girls will change after marriage, i went on for marraige. In the intial days of marriage, it was so tough for me as she was shameless in getting what she wanted and then in just 3 months i got onsite chance and i ran away from the marriage.

Recently we had a baby and i thought we would reconcile and live happily so i called her to USA but then she was the same, no change in her behaviour and her mom is playing the major role in our life. Now when i softly asked her for divorce and she agreed when she was in USA and then changed the color when she went to india saying, i tried to kill her, torture her and her relatives and her parents are scaring me and my family with court , police and other cases which are favourable to women. My parents, myself are mentally so disturbed and i feel like helpless and powerless. I know she is doing all these for money and she is somebody who cries and get sympathy from people. She is very cunning and very attached to her mom which is her problem. Please help me out legally, also i would really appreciate if you could suggest me a very good lawyer in hyderabad. How could i protect myself and my family and mycareer legally from her? RIght now she is silent, but not sure what happens next?

04 February, 2008

Prabin Mishra - Kolkata/W.B.

Name: Prabin Mishra
Comments: I have two kids,one son of 12 yrs. studying in a hostel and one deaughter of 7 yrs.I have married since 12th May,1994.I,my wife,my parents and my two younger brothers lived in the same flat which is in my father"s name when I got married.
After three yrs. of marriage,my wife all of sudden strated mental & physical torture on my parents and they including my brothers pated ways with my family after that on by one.
From year 1999,I am living with my wife and kids in the same flat ment. above and no relatives of mine ever come to my house since then.
After my relatives distanced from me for my safe,my wife then began mental torturing to me.She did not cook nor wahed my clothes nor was supportive towards any thing including sex.I could not knew the reason but I still never said no to any demands of hers.
I am LIC agent and used to go from my home at 9 a.m. in tne moring and came back at 9-10 p.m.Her tortures increased as days went on.She even stared beating me and avoided even sleeping me but I still I cared for her for the shake of my children.
Now suddenly I have come to know that she is in prostitution and has been doing this from no. of years.This information I have recd. from my locality people as they have seen several guys coming my home in my absence and even taking har away in vehicles when me and my daughter were not at house.She would very often hand my daughter to my neighbours and go outside.I have collected tel. details of calls made from my residence tel. and they prove to me that she is in a high profile sex racket.
After I have asked her to stop doing all this,she is threating to use 498 sec. against me and my parents including me brothers and is insisting me to be a mute spectator in her activities.
Everyday my life is made hell by her after this truth of her has been revealed by me to her.I have lodged several compaints in local P.S. but they are not suuporting me and asking me to do what my my wants.
Pl. advice on what to do as I having blood sugar of 400 now and will committ suicide if not helped.Pl. note that from last three yrs. my parents live at Patna.
I want to file divorce but the lawyers say that before that I,my parents and my brothers will have to jail under 498 if filed by my wife .

02 February, 2008

Mahesh Shastry - Sydney

Name: Mahesh Shastry
Comments: Engaged end of October, 2004,Married by the end of June 2005.
I am an Indian born, but an australian citizen.
The girl wasn't keen to go overseas. Delayed sending documents required for a visa process. In the mean time, she started sending abusive e-mails, I had to make a trip to India by end of 2005, to pcik up the documents to procees visa application.Visa application lodged in January 2006. Visa granted with in six months. She joined me by the end of August, 2006. got home sick with in three weeks of arrival and started to pick up,trivial issues and argue with myself and my sister,parents.
started misusing the liberty given, by e-mailing and ringing her parents and relatives to complain about us.
Insisted me to buy a ticket to go back to India. I couldn't afford.
She, organised for the money to pay for the one way ticket to India.
even though we come to know, about her secret travel, we did't resist as per the local regulations. She mentioned theat, she going back to pursue higher studies in Charted Accountancy. So we let her go with out room for any sort of arguements.Once she landed in India, she stared complaining about myself and my parents, which were base less.Her brother-in-law, sent an e-mail expecting myself and my parents to visit India, to sort out her manupilated issues.
But we refuse to visit on their request during mid March 2007.she started sending abusive e-mails, which I ignored.

She e-mailed me a petition to file a suite, for a huge compensation of 28lakhs drafted by her Lawyer, forcing me to sign.
I gently rerlied, requesting her to come back. Then her lawyer issued me a notice to sign for the petition, by quoting a different clauses of IPC. So replied to her Lawyer, to explain about the clauses mentioned. sso he must have realised that, there may not be enough grounds to file a civil siute.
So , he must have suggested the Idea of lodging a police complaint on myself,Myparents, my uncles and Guruji,by using dreconian 498A with an ambition to get a quick solution and to get a huge compensation, through the public system, by
My parents visited India briefly, but didn't visit my wife and my In-laws. My parents delivered her things left behind, through a private courier service prior to their departure from Bangalore.

Once she come to know about our visit, she has lodged complaint with the Sheshadripuram Police, Bangalore.
Myself (First Party ), My father(Second Party), My Mother(Thid Party). We are all foreign Citizens.

Other Parties included in the complaint are my uncles and Guruji, who
all live in India. Applied for the anticipatary bail. She has included their names to use pressure tactics.

What do you think of this case and your suggestions please.

01 February, 2008

Sudhanshu - Noida, UP

Name: Sudhanshu
Comments: . My father is a retired teacher and mother is a housewife. I have an elder brother who is happily married for 8 years and a younger brother. All of them lived in a joint family in Delhi until last year when my father retired and they moved to Noida in their own house. My elder bhabhi belongs to a family with very humble background.

Last Nov (11/21/2007) my younger brother got married to a daughter of a lawyer from Bulandshahar. We did all the arrangements in Noida where the marriage took place and didn't ask for a single penny from girl's parents. The girl however didn't like my parents living in the same house and walked out with all her belongings on 12/23/07. This whole incident caused a mild heart attack to my already ailing mother. Since then her parents are threatening us with this draconian 498A law. We are really not sure what to do?

The family hid some facts from us -
* One of their son is mentally ill
* Girl takes some medicines for anxiety
* Girl was sick for 2-3 years. Not sure what was the problem. We looked at her high shool and 12th certificates and there is a gap of 4 years. When questioned, the dad said she wwas sick.

sachin kumar - A.P

Name: sachin kumar
Comments: SIR,
I M A VICTIM OF FALSE CASE IN DOWRY SUFFERRING FROM PAST 5 YEARS I LOST MY FATHER DUE TO THIS SHOCK AND MY MOTHER IS ON EDGE DO ADVICE ME AS HOW TO PROCEED CAASE IS ON TRIAL SHE HAD COME TO STAY BUT WE SENT HER BACK,PLS SUGGEST ME HAVE TWO KIDS ONE IS WITH ME FROM HIGH COURT.

SACHIN

Nilesh Jha - Bangalore/Karnataka

Name: Nilesh Jha
Comments: Please advice regarding the process,forms & documents required at the time of applying for bail in Sessions and consequently in High court. Also plz refer a good & experienced advocate in Bangalore with contact details,from whom I can seek legal advice.