Mahendra Patel - New Mumbai

Name: Mahendra Patel
Comments: I was working in UAE and was earning about Rs. 70,000/- per month since last march 2007 and was sending all my earning to my wife thru banks. I had given my cheque book blank signed by me and ATM card of the bank. She used to withdraw the money but in last 18 years of marriage, I had never asked my wife how she was expensing the money. In April 2008, I took loan of Rs. 15 lacs from UAE banks, out of which I bought jewelary & other things for Rs 5 lacs for mymwife & children(aged 16yrs. 12 yrs. & 07 years). Rs.5 lacs I invested in UAE to start business and balance Rs. 5 Lacs I transferred in my wife bank accounts. When I came back in May 2008 for one month to stay which my wife & children, my wife started to fight with me saying that I have another wife in UAE. This went for almost 03 months and I was not able to go back for business and yhe money I had invested was lost.
Then, on 02nd August 2008, my wife alongwith all three children left the home early 03:00 am keeping the door open while I was sleeping and on 04 th she lodged a FIR at Navsari police station U/S 498(a) involving me and my old parents(who never stayed with us and were living in native place at Navsari). Complaint was that I was demanding Rs. 2 Lacs as dowry. Sir, how can I demand when my total earning was given to my wife, Rs. 1 lacs given to my brother-in-law by me on 05th June 2008. Rs.95,000/- was given by me when my father-in-law had a heart-attack in November 2007. My wwife had taken away all jewellaries worth Rs. 7 Lacs and all the money.
Now, I had spent so much money that I am broke up. Today i have to take money from my parents(who are retires) for my expenses. I don't know what to do? If you can help me, it would be great for me. The bank are asking for repayment and I am blackelisted in UAE. I am 41 years and am also not able to get the job.

Thanks & regards,

MAHENDRA PATEL