Arif Mulani - Vashi Navi Mumbai

Name: Arif Mulani
Comments: I am having a big problem which I beleive that there is no resolution except suicide. I am sunni muslim and I have been married since 3 years. My relationship with my wife is not good from the begining of the marriage. I have a baby son who is 14 months old. I got married at the age of 23 years, because my mother is diebeatis and heart patient. So I had been forced to marry early age. I am undergraduate, but I wanted to marry a girl who should atleast complete graduation, as I was facing financial problem and I am still facing the same problem. To be honest, my wife's uncle cheated me saying that my wife is a good hard working girl etc. But she is mentally sick, she do not want to adjust with me, she do not want do any work in my house. she is not caring . She is an elder to her family, but still don't think of her, child and my future. She just want to sit ideally and want to do nothing. I have a good amount of patience and therefore, I have been waited for 3 years, hoping that one day she will become caring and hard working women. But there is no progress in these years. Whenever we fight to each other, she simply asks for divorce and I told her parents that she is asking for divorce since the time of the marriage, but they are ignoring me. They are financial good. I am working very hard to overcome of my loans. Now i have tired and decided to marry to another girl, but without divorce with my first wife, I cannot go ahead. Therefore, I request you please give some solution to my problem.