Balaji - Dubai

Name: Balaji
Comments: I have dreamed a lot about future wife that I should give 100% love and faith to her.

But I got big shock when I was in chennai after marriage .She always cry and fight for the silly reasons and we didn’t have the physical relation’s even I adjusted her due to new place and new people for her.

Getting a visa is not easy but I tried to bring my wife she was with me in Dubai for six months. I have given full freedom. She was always fight with me for the old family rivals and insulted me and my family using very bad words. She keeps on beat me and through some items on me what ever she gets in her hand (mobile and etc) even hurt my body using her finger nails. She himself hurt using some sharp items.

She was so laze not able to prepare good food. Middle of the night she wake up and cry ,stand near window for two to three hours ,tear all papers look like mess of house ,She resists not having baby child (Reason say the baby will grow like her with mental problems).She demand always wants the divorce. And fight with me till midnights not allow me to sleep even I have morning shifts.

I come to know she has love affairs with one gentle man collage met for a year ,even I don’t mind her past life.

One time due to my friends party I had beer for that reasons she runaway from home at the time was early morning 3.00 AM.

We did not had big fight but she tried suicide attempt I come to know she has the depression problem since from birth. (her family every one has some depression problems Elder sisters, her Dad) they hide before marrige.She always fight with me, very arrogant not able to control. On my vacation I admit her in Apollo hospital for the treatment.

Doctor said she has personality disorder boarder line & Conversion disorder; I spend thirty thousand for the treatment at least get her back as normal girl. I drop her in India for the treatment she agreed also.

Now she went her home not cooperate for the treatments now fight with all family members .Went women’s police station with help of her parents complain false information’s about us.

Police discussed both families finally decided that hand over her belongs (jewels), we hand over all. She will correct her faults and stay together. As of now there is no verbal contact for past six months. See how much she loves me.

Bride’s parents planned to put my parents in jail. We are respected middle class family now suffer lot due to wife parents threatening. I have gone through web sites regarding Indian laws. I come to know laws favorable to bride’s side.

I have given little incident about her not a whole incidents.

I was so screwed up after my marriage. They know about her mental condition and played with my life and hide girl’s problem and put my life in big trouble. Defiantly god will punish her families for the cruel behavior.

Doctor advised that she cannot change her character, I should adjust her and take care as baby and watch all times, how could it possible if I gone for duty she attempt suicide. Dubai law much different from Indian laws .I has to be in jail for life long because of her mental problems. And her parents say that blindly I murder her.

Kindly advice what steps I should take now.

Or your opinion

Best regards,